My control panel is not lighting up or working, is there a reset button or something? I did check the breaker box to make sure it is on.

You could have a bad thermal cutout or any of several problems. See: http://www.rcappliancepartsimages.com/dbImages/i/00002164/Thermal-Fuse-8193762-00651732.jpg
You will need to get a meter and start tracing the power from where it comes in to where it fails. It sounds like a hard job, but it's really an easy thing to do.Here are some manuals that are close to your model: (Kenmore and Bosch are the same now)
https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/8010163/Bosch%20800%20Plus%20Series%20Dishwasher%20Service %20Manual.pdf
https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/8010163/Bosch%20Dishwasher%20Sears%20ServiceManual.pdf
https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/8010163/How%20to%20use%20Test%20Equipment%20Service%20Manu al.pdf
https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/8010163/Kenmore%20Dishwasher%20Fault%20Codes.docx
https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/8010163/Whirlpool_Kenmore%20Dishwashers.zip
https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/8010163/Whirlpool_Thermal_Cutout.pdf