Asalamualikum
Sir I am a muslim girl. I want to ask that every time I feel that I am not in pure state. I don't know that it is right or not I try to keep myself pure. When I stand for prayer I feel as if liquid is discharging from both anal and urethra, every time I go to toilet I wash my pants to ensure my purity but while praying my mind is always distracted whether my prayer would be accepted? Or am I pure or not?? All these queries going in my mind. I also don't want to consult a doctor for private parts and that if I think also I would have to say to my parents first... for doing both I don't have guts... please suggest me something...
Thank You...

How old are you? You should probably talk to your mom privately. Pray for the courage to talk to your mom then do it. She probably had a similar experience at your age. Or will know what to do about it.

As well maybe consulting your imam or if you have a sister talk to her. That is if you can't talk to your mother.

In my humble atheistic opinion, you've done what you can to be pure for prayer. You cannot be helped for things you cannot control. Instead of concentrating on whether you're pure, you should be concentrating on your prayers.