sanya right
Nov 11, 2013, 10:12 PM
Hello friends, here is my story.
When I was doing my higher secondary education, I don't talk much with people. I haven't interacted with others much. One of my classmates had crush in me. When I came to know about it I didn't react much. After our exams he proposed in me school. I rejected it. He changed his school after that. Occasionally he would come to my school to see me. I knew this but didn't do anything. It was our school preparation holidays for board exams. It was when he got my no from someone and started texting me. He said he wanted to be my friend. I agreed. Our messages continued for months. He would text how much he liked me bla bla... many many things. I started falling for it. Finally I agreed and we were in a relationship.
Everything went good after that. He had many good qualities like he is very affectionate. He showed me tons and tons of love, made me special every moment, very caring and protective, and manly. He is gem of a guy. We never had any physical contact, not even held our hands together, but he was very possessive about me. He hated me talking or texting other guys.
We entered into different stream of education in college. He didn't like my professional course. He would always say guys in your college are bad. They flirt with gals, beware of them. Whenever they try to talk just avoid, loads of advices...I hated it. I am not the type who would fall for it, but he kept on insisting you might be good, but they will change you. We fought plenty of times regarding this. During these fights he would continuously message like 100 messages in 10 minutes. Will make calls continuously until I pick up, even the whole day. If I didn't he would threaten me by calling to my home land line. Despite how much he fights he will ask sorry plenty of times. He will even cry if I didn't talk. He will say if I'm not by his side he can't do anything. We patched up love several times after many many fight and it went on, but his attitude didn't change. He would deny it and his possessive nature increased. I felt like am being controlled by him in the name love.
I felt uneasy. I wanted to end our relationship. He was shocked. He begged me like anything. I can't explain how much he suffered but I wasn't ready to continue further. We broke up. What I did was right or not? Did I betray him?
When I was doing my higher secondary education, I don't talk much with people. I haven't interacted with others much. One of my classmates had crush in me. When I came to know about it I didn't react much. After our exams he proposed in me school. I rejected it. He changed his school after that. Occasionally he would come to my school to see me. I knew this but didn't do anything. It was our school preparation holidays for board exams. It was when he got my no from someone and started texting me. He said he wanted to be my friend. I agreed. Our messages continued for months. He would text how much he liked me bla bla... many many things. I started falling for it. Finally I agreed and we were in a relationship.
Everything went good after that. He had many good qualities like he is very affectionate. He showed me tons and tons of love, made me special every moment, very caring and protective, and manly. He is gem of a guy. We never had any physical contact, not even held our hands together, but he was very possessive about me. He hated me talking or texting other guys.
We entered into different stream of education in college. He didn't like my professional course. He would always say guys in your college are bad. They flirt with gals, beware of them. Whenever they try to talk just avoid, loads of advices...I hated it. I am not the type who would fall for it, but he kept on insisting you might be good, but they will change you. We fought plenty of times regarding this. During these fights he would continuously message like 100 messages in 10 minutes. Will make calls continuously until I pick up, even the whole day. If I didn't he would threaten me by calling to my home land line. Despite how much he fights he will ask sorry plenty of times. He will even cry if I didn't talk. He will say if I'm not by his side he can't do anything. We patched up love several times after many many fight and it went on, but his attitude didn't change. He would deny it and his possessive nature increased. I felt like am being controlled by him in the name love.
I felt uneasy. I wanted to end our relationship. He was shocked. He begged me like anything. I can't explain how much he suffered but I wasn't ready to continue further. We broke up. What I did was right or not? Did I betray him?