So im 13,obiviously ima girl and im not even going to lie right now i am truely paraniod.So like 2 weeks ago i hade unprotected sex BUT he didnt .I know that there could still be a chance for something about precum or something like that?I dont know i was really sad when i was talking to an adult i trust about it.Early signs or pregnancy?I really can't get preggo my parents would disown me.I feel super guilty and i dont know why i did it,probaly the pressure.But i know what not to do next time.Just i dunno is there like a big chance small chance medium chance?I am really really stressed and need answers so thanks.

Any time you have sex, even if you use protection, even if you use 3 or more forms, all used correctly, pregnancy is possible. There's no way to tell you what your chances are, only that there is a good chance. You'll have to wait for your next period, if it's late, wait 2 weeks, then test using first morning urine.

I am confused about one part of your post:


So like 2 weeks ago i hade unprotected sex BUT he didnt

How did you have unprotected sex, but he didn't? Either both of you used protection, or neither of you did. It's not a one did, one didn't sort of thing. It makes no sense the way you posted it.

it took away the word. But i said come.but spellt differently,god i am stressed,

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This is also worrisome. You're trying to lose weight, and you're trying to do it in a very unhealthy way, and now there's a chance that you're pregnant?

You really do need to seek professional help for all of this. There's very little we can do online. Please talk to a therapist.

it took away the word. But i said come.but spellt differently,god i am stressed,

You have every reason to be stressed. I don't know a 13 year old that's ready to have a baby. So why were you having sex if you weren't ready to be a mom?

i am not talking to them for crapp,all they do is make you pay for lies,trust me i know,

i am not talking to them for crapp,all they do is make you pay for lies,trust me i know,

I know too, and that's not the experience I've had. What makes you think they lie to you? Do you tell them the truth? They can only base your therapy on what you tell them. If you lie, they have to go by your lies, which means that they really can't help you.

i just hate the whole idea of it and i just grr the lady was not nice to me didnt help me at all and of course i told her the truth but she judged me and made rude comments and gahh it was awful.

i just hate the whole idea of it and i just grr the lady was not nice to me didnt help me at all and of course i told her the truth but she judged me and made rude comments and gahh it was awful.

So what are you doing now to help deal with your issues? You're considering starving yourself and developing a horrible disease that could kill you, and it's possible you're pregnant. Obviously there's a lot going on that you're not dealing with very well.

Have you talked to your parents about all of this?

HECK NO,they would disown me and kick me out.

HECK NO,they would disown me and kick me out.

So what are you going to do to stop all of this?

Stop having sex is a good start. You can't get pregnant if you don't have sex.

Eating healthy is another good start.

Those are relatively easy things to do, you really don't need a therapist to do them, or to realize the need to do them. So, can you manage to do those two things without anyone helping you to do them?

well first off,that was my first time second off i am going to eat healthy because if i have a baby im not going to hurt it.And plus when im ready to tell my parents if they do disown me i have other places to go.Cause i can't keep what i did a secret i did a sin and eventaully especailly if im preggo they will find out.

well first off,that was my first time second off i am going to eat healthy because if i have a baby im not going to hurt it.And plus when im ready to tell my parents if they do disown me i have other places to go.Cause i can't keep what i did a secret i did a sin and eventaully especailly if im preggo they will find out.

You can't change the past. The past is done. You can change the future, and you have a huge say in what happens in your future. You're the only one that can decide what that future will be like when it comes to pregnancy, or eating healthy.

First let's find out if you are pregnant. Test 2 weeks after you miss your period, if you miss it. If you don't, you dodged a bullet, so chalk it up to experience, and don't repeat the mistake. Even if you aren't pregnant, eating healthy is still important for your health. So do it.

It's really all in your hands.