We were in relationship, both married, neighbors, we all 4 were friends. Its been 3 years now, he is chasing me trying different tricks to get me or I will say harassing me. I really don't understand what does he want, but I want to be friend with him and his wife. I am not into him but I feel it gives me happiness having family relationship. He shows he is in depression and wants to stay in touch but when I see him he looks quite OK.

My question is if he sees me frequently (not meeting only seeing on the road or building) is it possible he will move on and will not talk to us at all?

He was extremely possessive about me. I don't see him at all. He travels all the time out of frustration or hides. Is it possible he will find someone else?

I'm a little bit confused here.

You are married, and he is married.

You had an affair with him?

Please clarify, it would be helpful.

He is a troubled man and maybe his wife and your husband should know of his problem. Or you could tell him straight up you do not like his behavior when he crosses the line. This is presuming you have had no inappropriate affair behind your spouses back, and your conduct has been entirely above board as a friend of the family.