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Meme0091
Sep 24, 2013, 05:10 AM
I met someone while traveling. We were into each other but the circumstances did not allow us to exchange numbers or addresses. We met in front of a building while he was waiting for someone and he was ringing a bell on that building. I thought it would be easier to ask the residents about him because clearly he knows one of them. Looking up his number in telephone directories is hard. I know the address of the building, so I just need to know information about the residents so I can ask one of them.

N0help4u
Sep 24, 2013, 06:05 AM
I know how to, but I really don't think it would be a good idea in this case. Are you able to hang out in that surrounding area and hope to run into him?

tickle
Sep 24, 2013, 06:27 AM
You don't want to appear to be stalking. If it were me living in that building, I would be very wary of anyone asking questions about a resident.

N0help4u
Sep 24, 2013, 07:36 AM
I'm thinking worse yet since he had to ring the bell it could be a girlfriends apartment building.

ScottGem
Sep 24, 2013, 08:49 AM
Most realtors have a directory by address (I think its called a Coles Directory)

Wondergirl
Sep 24, 2013, 08:59 AM
In the U.S. there's this -- Criss Cross Directory | Haines Directory - Criss-Cross.com (http://www.criss-cross.com/)

There may be something similar in other countries. Check with a library or real estate agency.

N0help4u
Sep 24, 2013, 09:08 AM
Yes, its Coles

Meme0091
Sep 24, 2013, 02:08 PM
I failed to mention that we met in Paris but we both don't live there.

Regarding to tickle's answer, I understand what you mean and I myself not want to appear as a stalker. I've never looked for someone like this and the last thing I want is to look like a stalker to him and others.

I thought about asking the people living there but in an unsuspicious way, but since I don't live there it would be a hard thing to do.

To answer N0help4u, I don't think he was waiting for his girlfriend there because he asked me out while he was waiting and tried to exchange numbers, but I was hesitant at the time and I left before we could talk more. He did mention he was visiting his mother there so maybe he was waiting for her, but I don't think it was his girlfriend or he wouldn't have asked me out on the same night.

Wondergirl and scottgem mentioned Coles directory, Criss Cross directory and Haines directory. As I said earlier, sorry to have failed to mention that the place is in Paris, France, so I do not know if they have them. I would check the libraries in Paris but I am not currently there.
Do you by chance know what substitutes are there in France?

Wondergirl
Sep 24, 2013, 02:20 PM
I would think Paris libraries invite email reference questions and would go that route. (Haines = Criss Cross)

Meme0091
Sep 25, 2013, 11:40 AM
Most realtors have a directory by address (I think its called a Coles Directory)

Thank you Scott. Your reply has been helpful!