So I started going out with a girl about 3 weeks ago. She was a new student I had to get to know her. So not even a week later I held her hand and that's when I knew she really liked me. So next week which was today I try to hug her because our buses are on different bus loads so I could not hold her hand. Anyway my friends were behind me when I attempted to hug her. She shook her head and said no just like that.

I was pissed now I don't know if we should date cause I feel like I'm the only person putting strong effort into this relationship but I love her. Not like puppy dog kiddy love, I really like her, so should I continue or end it here?

Back off some and see if she tries spending time with you. She could feel you are trying to be more than she is ready for. If all she wants is friends keep itat friends. If you come off as pushy she will back off.

She doesn't like to be hugged in front of YOUR friends, or in public, I don't know but ask her if you like her so much. Many people don't like public shows of affection, not just females.