thisguy26
Sep 8, 2013, 02:53 PM
Sorry I hope this isn't to long. My girlfriend and I are on a break, because she wanted it. We have made 2 years and had our ups and downs but over strong. She is in school most of the time and I am busy with working or getting my career started. Since we argue more recently and have not been in contact as much she wanted a break. I gave her space but since that time she had wanted me to fix her phone and had accused me of seeing another girl. I said no to both and kept the text convos casual. She also put up weird Facebook posts about "If i could go back to when we met.." or " while your not paying attention to her another guy is..". Since I am not really on FB as much it took me awhile to realize the connection.
After a few weeks she I texted her to see how she was. I had designed a picture and showed her. She seemed to like it. She had also said she felt I didn't have time for her and that's why she wanted the break. She eventually asked me to come and after a couple of days of asking I did. When I went we spoke and started to become intimate. I stopped myself and she was upset I did not continue. We then spoke and she said she missed me and massaged my back etc. THe FB posts we also bought up and she said she was glad I saw them. After I kissed her and left. We had texted after I got home. The next 2 days I heard no contact from her until I texted a flirty message the 3rd day. She then responded a little rude and for the following days she would be evading questions and when I asked to come over this day or another she kept saying she was busy and doing "things".
After awhile I became confused. I don't know what happened? We went back and forth and finally I got tired of trying and being told "im busy", "no", "I will see". And when I stated "now it looks like you dont have the time", she replied simply "Well hey." After that I just pretty much stopped texting. I have not heard from her in a week now and I don't know how to feel. I have picked up new hobbies and moved on with life but I am not sure what happened? I was not to busy for her nor would I purposely do that. I am older than her by a few years but I am not sure what to do?
After a few weeks she I texted her to see how she was. I had designed a picture and showed her. She seemed to like it. She had also said she felt I didn't have time for her and that's why she wanted the break. She eventually asked me to come and after a couple of days of asking I did. When I went we spoke and started to become intimate. I stopped myself and she was upset I did not continue. We then spoke and she said she missed me and massaged my back etc. THe FB posts we also bought up and she said she was glad I saw them. After I kissed her and left. We had texted after I got home. The next 2 days I heard no contact from her until I texted a flirty message the 3rd day. She then responded a little rude and for the following days she would be evading questions and when I asked to come over this day or another she kept saying she was busy and doing "things".
After awhile I became confused. I don't know what happened? We went back and forth and finally I got tired of trying and being told "im busy", "no", "I will see". And when I stated "now it looks like you dont have the time", she replied simply "Well hey." After that I just pretty much stopped texting. I have not heard from her in a week now and I don't know how to feel. I have picked up new hobbies and moved on with life but I am not sure what happened? I was not to busy for her nor would I purposely do that. I am older than her by a few years but I am not sure what to do?