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Jack248
Sep 8, 2013, 06:05 AM
I had a crush on this girl and the girl also had a crush on me. We both knew each other's feelings but I rejected her because it was exam period and national exams were coming soon.
Then, some time after that, she used reverse psychology on me and I felt very bad that I had lost her but later that day she told me that she still loved me and I, on the spur of the moment, said I will go out with her after the exams are over.
Now, I'm unsure if my feelings will last a few months until the exams are over since it is fluctuating between me loving her and love being non-existent.
What do you think I should do?
P.S. I still go out on dates with her once in a while but we are not in a relationship.

N0help4u
Sep 8, 2013, 06:18 AM
Just take it one day at a time. You have no commitments.

Homegirl 50
Sep 8, 2013, 06:27 AM
You go out with her every once in awhile. Don't worry about the future. You didn't promise to marry her and you're not in a relationship with her. One day at a time.

Brandonmys
Sep 10, 2013, 09:27 PM
If you're contemplating on if you have feelings for her or not this early in the relationship, chances are things aren't going to workout in the long run.. I mean unless you still barely know the girl.