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candy87
Sep 4, 2013, 10:47 AM
A day after my period I had sperm put in me for four days a week and a half after that my stomach been cramping and having nervous feeling.. im a little worried that something went wrong

smoothy
Sep 4, 2013, 11:00 AM
Too early to know yet... it ca take a week for conception to occur... IF it occurs.

I'm assuming you were a willing recipient... and pregnancy was your intention.

Alty
Sep 4, 2013, 12:08 PM
I'm curious. What do you mean you "had sperm put in you"? Are you talking about sex, or some other method? Are you trying to conceive?

candy87
Sep 4, 2013, 01:28 PM
I'm curious. What do you mean you "had sperm put in you"? Are you talking about sex, or some other method? Are you trying to conceive?

Yes I am we didt have sex he just put the sperm in me

smoothy
Sep 4, 2013, 01:29 PM
Yes i am we didt have sex he just put the sperm in me

OK, I really have to ask WHY? Not only WHY he would do that... but WHY you laid back and let him?

odinn7
Sep 4, 2013, 02:02 PM
I confuse.

Alty
Sep 4, 2013, 03:15 PM
Yes i am we didt have sex he just put the sperm in me

So you're trying to conceive, but you and your husband (I'm assuming you're married, otherwise why try and conceive) aren't having sex?

How did he insert the sperm in you?

candy87
Sep 4, 2013, 04:03 PM
So you're trying to conceive, but you and your husband (I'm assuming you're married, otherwise why try and conceive) aren't having sex?

How did he insert the sperm in you?

He stuck his d@ck in me that's how the sperm got in me yes I want to have a baby that's why I did it never been pregnant before

Alty
Sep 4, 2013, 04:32 PM
He stuck his d@ck in me thats how the sperm got in me yes I want to have a baby thats why i did it never been pregnant before

When I asked if you had sex, you said no. Now suddenly the answer has changed to yes.

You'll have to wait until your period is at least 2 weeks late, then test using first morning urine.

odinn7
Sep 4, 2013, 05:24 PM
He stuck his d@ck in me thats how the sperm got in me yes I want to have a baby thats why i did it never been pregnant before

You see, when you said he put his sperm in you and others asked you to clarify what that meant, you were still unclear. Saying you had sex would have kind of removed any cloudiness in these answers.

So this cramping and nervousness that you're feeling a week after you had sperm put into you is too soon to be taken as any kind of symptoms. As was already stated, you'll need to wait until you miss a period and then test about 2 weeks after that.

By the way... now I'm curious... how do you know his sperm was in you for 4 days?

Alty
Sep 4, 2013, 05:28 PM
You see, when you said he put his sperm in you and others asked you to clarify what that meant, you were still unclear. Saying you had sex would have kind of removed any cloudiness in these answers.

So this cramping and nervousness that you're feeling a week after you had sperm put into you is too soon to be taken as any kind of symptoms. As was already stated, you'll need to wait until you miss a period and then test about 2 weeks after that.

By the way...now I'm curious....how do you know his sperm was in you for 4 days?

I think she means they had sex, or he "put his sperm in" 4 days in a row. But, with this OP, I'm not sure that my translation is correct.

odinn7
Sep 4, 2013, 05:36 PM
Ok, that would make sense. I read it wrong then. My mistake. I still confuse.

Alty
Sep 4, 2013, 07:03 PM
Ok, that would make sense. I read it wrong then. My mistake. I still confuse.

You didn't read it wrong, it was written wrong, and when asked for clarification it was still unclear, then the OP had a hissy fit because she can't, or won't, clarify what she means.

This thread is just messed up. The OP needs to sit down gather her thoughts, and realize that we can't read minds, we can only base our advice on what she posts. If she doesn't want to say that she had sex, than why is she trying to conceive?

smoothy
Sep 4, 2013, 07:20 PM
He stuck his d@ck in me thats how the sperm got in me yes I want to have a baby thats why i did it never been pregnant before

Do you grasp what having sex actually is?

YOU very clearly stated before that


Yes i am we didt have sex he just put the sperm in me

Which is opposite what your next response was...

candy87
Sep 4, 2013, 07:34 PM
You didn't read it wrong, it was written wrong, and when asked for clarification it was still unclear, then the OP had a hissy fit because she can't, or won't, clarify what she means.

This thread is just messed up. The OP needs to sit down gather her thoughts, and realize that we can't read minds, we can only base our advice on what she posts. If she doesn't want to say that she had sex, than why is she trying to conceive? Ok maybe I wrote it all wrong so ill start over and give details. I want a baby so after my period ended a week and a half ago I started to get sperm injected in me using an syringe the first two days then the next two days he stuck it in when he was cuming. So a week and a half from then I been having cramping feeling in my stomach and back. I know its too early to know but I was worried about why I'm having this cramping feeling out of no where. Its not a real painful. Hopefully I cleared up the confusing and sorry for misunderstanding

smoothy
Sep 4, 2013, 07:36 PM
Now we are back to the no sex happened all over again...


How old are you? What country are you in?

Alty
Sep 4, 2013, 07:40 PM
Ok maybe i wrote it all wrong so ill start over and give details. I want a baby so after my period ended a week and a half ago i started to get sperm injected in me using an syringe the first two days then the next two days he stuck it in when he was cuming. So a week and a half from then i been having cramping feeling in my stomach and back. I know its too early to know but i was worried about why im having this cramping feeling out of no where. Its not a real painful. Hopefully i cleared up the confusing and sorry for misunderstanding

The cramping definitely wouldn't be related to pregnancy. As you said, it's too early for any pregnancy symptoms, and frankly, painful cramping isn't a sign of pregnancy, it's more a sign of miscarriage, or PMS, food poisoning, the flu, etc. .
We can't give you a diagnosis, but if you're having painful cramping, I'd get checked. It could be damage from when he inserted a syringe, that's not at all safe.

I do have to ask, why is he putting sperm inside of you with a syringe instead of sex? This doesn't sound like a very healthy relationship to me. If you want to discuss that aspect of it, we're here to help. No judgement. I just have to say, most couples, when they're trying to conceive, have sex. That's the best way to get the job done.

As for pregnancy, you'll have to wait until your period is at least 2 weeks late, then test using first morning urine. If that test is negative, wait for the next period, and if it's missed, test again or get a blood test.

Last question. Is this man your husband?

candy87
Sep 4, 2013, 07:46 PM
[QUOTE=smoothy;3544230]Now we are back to the no sex happened all over again...
Ok I just clear up everything much as possible and gave more detail if you understand still what I'm asking then fine thanks anyway I was just worried

smoothy
Sep 4, 2013, 07:50 PM
Answering the other questions we asked will help us understand a lot better... because its just bizarre because of the health aspects AND the legal aspects... and the fact this is just extremely unusual to say the least.

I most of the developed world... he is opening himself up to legally owing support for a child he didn't even get to enjoy the sex act that resulted in conception.

All of our questions including what country you are in would go a long way to understanding this. Because as you describe this... there is almost nothing that would be considered normal or even consistent. And let us understand cultural or language issues (while this is an English site, many don't speak it as a first language), not to mention the legal ramifications.