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Summertime16
Aug 6, 2013, 08:23 PM
Hey guys so I am 11 and a half turning 12 in September and the guy I like is 13 also turning 14 in September I went to vacation bible school with him last week and he sat next toe every night including in bi le study ( when we study our verses) I really like him like him but I'm too shy to ask him if he likes me plus I heard him whisper to his friend that he doesn't like me because I'm 2 years younger than me by I really think he was just saying that because he laughed at EVERYTHING I said because we bonded over this one girl at V.B.S who was VERY creepy by the wAy, and that's when I really noticed I like him like him, Help please! ;) :(
odinn7
Aug 6, 2013, 08:29 PM
A) You're too young to have a boyfriend. Be a kid for a while, you've earned it.
B) At that age, 2 years is a big difference and he is too old for you.
C) Basing a relationship on making fun of another person is not the best way to start.
Homegirl 50
Aug 6, 2013, 08:41 PM
At 14 I doubt he's interested in you and he shouldn't be. You are too young to be thinking about having anything to do with this guy. The fact that you two made fun of a creepy girl means nothing and I'm not going to tell an 11 year old how to attract or talk to a 14 year old.
N0help4u
Aug 6, 2013, 08:45 PM
You bonded because you both found another girl creepy?
How well will you bond in 10 years when one of you wants 0 kids and the other wants 2, when he wants you to work and you want to stay home, when one of you want to live in the country and the other wants to live in the city, one of you wants pets and the other doesn't,
Alty
Aug 6, 2013, 09:00 PM
You're 11, too young to date. Nuff said.
Fr_Chuck
Aug 7, 2013, 01:38 AM
He can be a friend, so be friends, as you mature, he may latter be a boyfriend