So I decided not to have this baby because I agree with everybody on this one... haven a baby like that is selfish... so how do I tell him without hurting him that this isn't a good idea, its not worth it, I should have thought about the babies life first... this is just so wrong and I'm looking for love in all the wrong places... should I dump him? It seems like he's always trying to get in my pants.. and he tell me he loves me.. but I never really know if he means it... maybe that's why he wanted to have a baby... hmm what do you think.. :confused:

What you tell him is what we told you. You just don't feel you are emotionally able to have a baby at this time. You don't think that would be fair to the baby or to you since you want to be able to enjoy your teen age years.

If he can't appreciate that, then he's not worth keeping around. If he says, that he doesn't want a baby, just sex, then tell him you don't want to take the risk.