My boyfriend of 4 years has been using meth on and off I just found out 4 weeks ago because I found his pipe. He cried to me he would not do it again of course he did after that he was missing on the weekends and he came home two weeks ago high and saying sorry please forgive me. To his benefit he admit he used. I was not having it anymore I felt like I was being taken advantage of. So I told him he had to leave. At the time we were renting a room at my moms house we are both in our 30. We had been saving for a house but since this happen I don't know what to do? When I told him he had to go he can't do this in my moms house he left quit his job sold his car and he called everyday crying please help me. Finally I gave in and he said he was at a motel and to go see him. I saw him and took him straight to the emergency room he was so high dehydrated and his heart was pounding too fast. The doctor gave him a good yelling and lecture on
Crystal meth and that he was lucky he still had his teeth.Doctor gave him medicationcalled advar something like that every four hours for withdrawals. He is back home realizing everything and of course depressed moody and sleepy, he has agreed on doing a detox and going to meetings that is his final decision he swears no more. I think the hospital really scared him and now we r trying? Any advice? How can we naturally detox ? Or what can we do to stop the urges for him? Also, what is better taking medication or natural detox and long till it leaves his body ?

He needs to do a REAL detox under supervision.. of he's going to return to his drug using.

Meth is a powerful addiction that's likely to end only after he dies otherwise.

Get every dime you have under your name only... don't do anything until he has completed everything he needs to do... or he's likely to take it to spend on drugs... or worse... cook up his own in the house putting you and everyone else at risk.

Forget doing it naturally... because its not going to work. He needs professional supervision around the clock.. and the right kind of counseling the entire time. Its not a do-it-yourself project.