I'm worried about my breast size. My boobs should be much bigger than they actually are. I'm 16 , I have my periods since 2 years in September , I'm almost 5'7 , my body is not disproportionate (except my breast). My mom doesn't have the biggest breast , but she looks normal , I wanted to ask her when her boobs stopped to grow, but it would definitely be too awkward. I'm not flat , but not far than that. I noticed some changes in recent months , it's not a big difference but it's better than nothing , except that only one of my boobs seems to grow and the difference is apparent. It's my biggest complex, it even makes me anxious , mainly in some situations. For example , at the pool (parties, vacation or at school) with my friends OR it makes me REALLY anxious before having sex with a boy , it can seems stupid for you guys but it makes me really really really sad , I want to be like other teenagers, hahaha damn.

Is someone having the same problem or had this problem OR know what is wrong with me ? :(

More then likely nothing is wrong. We all develop at different stages. Stages being the key word. Most likely your just a late bloomer. It is nothing to be ashamed of. Relax and let your body do its own thing.


As far as sex that you can stop right away. That way you don't even have to worry about any awkwardness in that concern.

Your young enjoy the other parts of your life and don't focus so much on the mirror. In the end it really doesn't matter how you end up.

it makes me REALLY anxious before having sex with a boy


I'm 16

Those two quotes don't add up. Why are you having sex at 16?

I'm 42, I was a b cup until I was 27, then I had my first child and my cup size went from a b to a c. At 31 I had my second child and my cup size went to a DD. Now I'm a 32F.

Breasts change your entire life. Most women claim that one is bigger than the other.

Keep having sex and you'll soon have your first child, then your breasts will definitely change.

What is your cup size?

And yes you should not be engaging in sex at 16. Stopping that will relieve one of your anxieties.

More then likely nothing is wrong. We all develop at different stages. Stages being the key word. Most likely your just a late bloomer. It is nothing to be ashamed of. Relax and let your body do its own thing.


As far as sex that you can stop right away. That way you dont even have to worry about any awkwardness in that concern.

Your young enjoy the other parts of your life and dont focus so much on the mirror. In the end it really doesnt matter how you end up.

You're right , but for the sex , I wouldn't like to stop just like this , because of this stupid complex , I want to enjoy life and my breast prevents me to do certain things that I would like to
Of course , sex isn't the only thing in my life , but it's unfortunate that my body makes me uncomfortable and that my body limits me in my choices :(

You're right , but for the sex , I wouldn't like to stop just like this , because of this stupid complex , I want to enjoy life and my breast prevents me to do certain things that I would like to
Of course , sex isn't the only thing in my life , but it's unfortunate that my body makes me uncomfortable and that my body limits me in my choices :(

Will you have a complex when you're 9 months pregnant and look like you're carrying a 40 pound watermelon under your shirt? Not a great look for a 16 year old, especially at the pool. Only plus is that there's likely no teenage boy that will want to have sex with a pregnant 16 year old.

Breasts change your entire life. At 16 you're not nearly done growing, and your breasts are no exception.

If you want to have a complex about something, or be worried about something, worry about the repercussions of having sex. No form of birth control is 100%, you're playing Russian roulette, and sooner or later you will hit the chamber with the bullet.

Those two quotes don't add up. Why are you having sex at 16?

I'm 42, I was a b cup until I was 27, then I had my first child and my cup size went from a b to a c. At 31 I had my second child and my cup size went to a DD. Now I'm a 32F.

Breasts change your entire life. Most women claim that one is bigger than the other.

Keep having sex and you'll soon have your first child, then your breasts will definitely change.

Hahaha , these days , teenagers has their experiences earlier than before. I don't think a 16 yrs old who is sexually active is a scandal, I didn't rush things, I was ready and it was the right person so I don't see where's the problem.
If at 16, you weren't ready, that's good too
And I am not irresponsible or crazy , I take the contrcp. Pill, I use condoms and by the way being sexually active doesn't mean to have sex with everybody all the time.
I'm not here to be judged and if you are scandalized , well , OK , um

Will you have a complex when you're 9 months pregnant and look like you're carrying a 40 pound watermelon under your shirt? Not a great look for a 16 year old, especially at the pool. Only plus is that there's likely no teenage boy that will want to have sex with a pregnant 16 year old.

Breasts change your entire life. At 16 you're not nearly done growing, and your breasts are no exception.

If you want to have a complex about something, or be worried about something, worry about the repercussions of having sex. No form of birth control is 100%, you're playing Russian roulette, and sooner or later you will hit the chamber with the bullet.

oh god , I guess that you're against having sex before 30 years old?
Having sex isn't a sin , wow , how many girls are worst than me and lose their virginity something like 12 years old , I'm not anormal , calm down , I won't get pregnant

If you were truly ready to have sex, your breast size wouldn't bother you. Women who are truly ready to have sex do not have issues with their bodies.

What is your cup size?

And yes you should not be engaging in sex at 16. Stopping that will relieve one of your anxieties.

34A
But honestly , I'm sure that AA would fit if I had a smaller waist
Even if I wear push up bras , there's not much to push up lol

OK I understood that you guys are against sex when you're a teen, it's OK , but it's not the point
Also stopping that wouldn't necessarily stop my anxiety , I would actually make me even more anxious to know that I can't have sex because of my small breast

oh god , i guess that you're against having sex before 30 years old?
Having sex isn't a sin , wow , how many girls are worst than me and lose their virginity something like 12 years old , I'm not anormal , calm down , i wont get pregnant

So, because I'm smart and realize how dangerous it is for a child to have sex, that means I'm a prude? Little girl, you should read some of my other threads. I had sex long before the age of 16, and lived to regret it. That's why I give the advice I give, because I know what I'm talking about.

How will you ensure that you won't get pregnant, I'm curious. If you're having sex, even with all the contraceptives known to man, pregnancy is possible. You can't say you won't get pregnant, unless you stop having sex.

Your turn. Dazzle me with your brilliance. :)

If you were truly ready to have sex, your breast size wouldn't bother you. Women who are truly ready to have sex do not have issues with their bodies.

Of course I was ready , I wouldn't do it if I was not ,
It doesn't make me uncomfortable just for having sex ,
The size of my breasts bothers me and by chance, my complex is a part of what it has to do with sex , I do not believe that this has something to do with being ready or not
And honestly, and I do not know many women who have no issue with their bodies

Mine is my breast that's it

So, because I'm smart and realize how dangerous it is for a child to have sex, that means I'm a prude? Little girl, you should read some of my other threads. I had sex long before the age of 16, and lived to regret it. That's why I give the advice I give, because I know what I'm talking about.

How will you ensure that you won't get pregnant, I'm curious. If you're having sex, even with all the contraceptives known to man, pregnancy is possible. You can't say you won't get pregnant, unless you stop having sex.

Your turn. Dazzle me with your brilliance. :)

You're right ! It's normal to see the danger , it's your 'job' , I understand that you're just giving me advices to makes sure that I won't regret things later , I know that I can get pregnant even with all the contraceptives (the pills+condom for me) but it reduces a lot my chances , I don't know how you see me but I'm not trashy and I don't do crazy stuff like stops school or wtv , but having sex won't inevitably make me pregnant , yes I take risks, maybe I shouldn't
Anyway , thank you for taking your time to make sure that I won't ruin my life , it's appreciated

(the pills+condom for me)

That was my choice too! I have 2 sons now.

That was my choice too! I have 2 sons now.



I won't absolutely get pregnant caus it happened to you , like I said I don't have sex everyday , absolutely not , and I take risks when I do it , maybe I shouldn't but
Anyway , I'm not the only one , and it doesn't make me a bad person

If you were truly ready to have sex, you wouldn't be concerned about your breasts. You only think you were ready.

Many men prefer smaller breasts and any man that would reject you because of breast size is not worth having. If you were mature enough you would understand that.

But I doubt if we will get through to you, because you sound like a typical sure of yourself teen who doesn't think that adults know more than you.

If you were truly ready to have sex, you wouldn't be concerned about your breasts. You only think you were ready.

Many men prefer smaller breasts and any man that would reject you because of breast size is not worth having. If you were mature enough you would understand that.

But I doubt if we will get through to you, because you sound like a typical sure of yourself teen who doesn't think that adults know more than you.


No absolutely not ,
If you were telling me ' Yeah , it's OK to have sex at this moment of your life ' you would be wrong , because I know that you're an adult and you don't want me to do bad choices that I'll regret later
But I'm just trying to make you understand that being ready or not has nothing to do with this ,
When I said complex , you guys seem to think that it's just a whim , Forget all of the sex story or wtv , I don't even look at myself , my breast , it's so much more than having sex , sex is my last worry in all this story , it bothers me, but it's minor , the 'main' problem is that I honestly can't live with this complex forever because it prevents me to do things that I would totally do , I feel like I'm different and it makes me mad because it's such a little thing that I shouldn't even think about. I've been through so much things , horrible things (not abuse or anything don't worry) but it makes me mad that this little detail makes my life even worst
Ah , lord

I won't absolutely get pregnant caus it happened to you , like I said I don't have sex everyday , absolutely not , and I take risks when I do it , maybe I shouldn't but
anyways , I'm not the only one , and it doesn't make me a bad person

No, you're not the only teen that has sex. Maybe you should look up the stats on teen pregnancy before you state that it won't happen to you. Frankly, that's what every other teen thinks too, and it happens every day.

I had 4 friends in high school, one in junior high, that got pregnant. None of them had sex every day, they couldn't, they were teens, could only have sex when the opportunity presented itself (mom and dad out of town, a party, etc) Two had sex once, only once. One didn't use any protection, Two of them used the pill and used condoms. Not one thought it would happen to them.

I answered your question about your breasts. It's normal for your breasts to be two different sizes. Breasts come in all shapes, all sizes, and they change all throughout your life. I was a small B cup until my first child at the age of 27 and then grew to a C cup. I was a D cup when I had my second child at the age of 31. I am now 42 and I'm a 32F. Do you have any idea what 32F means? It means I pay a lot of money for my bras because I can't find my size in regular stores. I hate it.

Your breasts will change all throughout your life. You're 16, they're not done yet. I'm 42 and I don't think mine are done yet. :(

I'm more concerned about your "it can't happen to me" attitude about sex and the consequences, than I am about your breasts.

No absolutely not ,
If you were telling me ' Yeah , it's ok to have sex at this moment of your life ' you would be wrong , because i know that you're an adult and you don't want me to do bad choices that i'll regret later
But I'm just trying to make you understand that being ready or not has nothing to do with this ,
When i said complex , you guys seem to think that it's just a whim , Forget all of the sex story or wtv , I don't even look at myself , my breast , it's so much more than having sex , sex is my last worry in all this story , it bothers me, but it's minor , the 'main' problem is that I honestly can't live with this complex forever because it prevents me to do things that I would totally do , I feel like I'm different and it makes me mad because it's such a little thing that I shouldn't even think about. I've been through so much things , horrible things (not abuse or anything don't worry) but it makes me mad that this little detail makes my life even worst
ah , lord

Let me tell you a little story.

My mom suffered through breast cancer twice, the second time ended up taking her life. The first time, she removed the breast with the cancer, and the lymph nodes. So, she had one breast. The other side was scar, a horrible scar. In fact, I remember when she showed it to me. I still remember my reaction, a reaction I wish I could take back to this day. I was horrified and I couldn't stop myself from showing it.

She never considered reconstructive surgery, not only because of the cost, and the surgery (she'd had too many surgeries in her life), but because of the scar tissue. She didn't even have a nipple on that breast. Nothing but a very large scar.

She went swimming with me every week (that was one of our things), we went to the mountains, and she'd sit on the beach in her bathing suit, no prosthetics, nothing to cover the fact that she only had one breast.

Did it bother her? Hell yes it did! She often told me that she didn't even feel like a woman anymore because she lost a breast. She was a C cup. So she had one C cup breast, and then nothing but a scar on the other side. Talk about size difference.

Did that stop her? No. She was grateful to have what she had. Her life.

You're 16, you don't have cancer, and your breasts are not done growing, but you're complaining?

Sorry, but I can't gather up any sympathy for you.

Good luck.

I'm not the only one , and it doesn't make me a bad person

If other people jumped off a bridge would you do that too? That argument that others are doing it is one of the most immature that ever was. To justify doing something you really know is unwise because others do it, is ridiculous.

But no it doesn't make you a "bad" person, just a foolish one.

This site is different from other Q&A sites. We don't just deal with the specific question but with the whole situation. So not only are we trying to tell you that your concerns over your body are unfounded and immaterial, but also that engaging in sex is risky and dangerous.

No, you're not the only teen that has sex. Maybe you should look up the stats on teen pregnancy before you state that it won't happen to you. Frankly, that's what every other teen thinks too, and it happens every day.

I had 4 friends in highschool, one in junior high, that got pregnant. None of them had sex every day, they couldn't, they were teens, could only have sex when the opportunity presented itself (mom and dad out of town, a party, etc) Two had sex once, only once. One didn't use any protection, Two of them used the pill and used condoms. Not one thought it would happen to them.

I answered your question about your breasts. It's normal for your breasts to be two different sizes. Breasts come in all shapes, all sizes, and they change all throughout your life. I was a small B cup until my first child at the age of 27 and then grew to a C cup. I was a D cup when I had my second child at the age of 31. I am now 42 and I'm a 32F. Do you have any idea what 32F means? It means I pay a lot of money for my bras because I can't find my size in regular stores. I hate it.

Your breasts will change all throughout your life. You're 16, they're not done yet. I'm 42 and I don't think mine are done yet. :(

I'm more concerned about your "it can't happen to me" attitude about sex and the consequences, than I am about your breasts.

I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND
Like , I know the consequences of having sex at 16 , I know I could get pregnant , but I still do it ,because the other half of me knows that there's few chances that I get pregnant , but the chances are still there and they are real !
BUT I DON'T KNOW WHY US TEENS ARE WAITING FOR THE WORST TO HAPPEN TO REALIZE HOW STUPID IT WAS TO MAKE THIS DECISION.
Don't think I'm blind or stupid I know that I should just live my life without thinking of this caus I'm young ,
Teenagers are stupid , I don't understand why we are acting like this

I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND
like , I know the consequences of having sex at 16 , I know I could get pregnant , but I still do it ,because the other half of me knows that there's few chances that I get pregnant , but the chances are still there and they are real !
BUT I DON'T KNOW WHY US TEENS ARE WAITING FOR THE WORST TO HAPPEN TO REALIZE HOW STUPID IT WAS TO MAKE THIS DECISION.
Don't think I'm blind or stupid I know that I should just live my life without thinking of this caus I'm young ,
teenagers are stupid , I don't understand why we are acting like this

I know many teenagers that aren't stupid (your word not mine), and don't take that risk. They wait until they're ready to be parents.

You're using the pill and condoms. J9 posted on this thread, she's a nurse, she works in the labor and delivery department. If anyone knows how pregnancy works, and knows how to avoid it, it's her. She has 4 children, 2 were conceived while on birth control. She's far from stupid, and she's not a teen. So what makes you think that it can't happen to you if it happened to her, twice! And I didn't even mention all the other factors in her life that should have made pregnancy impossible.

You want to live your life. Go for it. Don't come to us when you have a crying baby at home that makes it impossible for you to ever be a teen again.

You can live your life and have fun without having sex.

hahaha , these days , teenagers has their experiences earlier than before. I don't think a 16 yrs old who is sexually active is a scandal, I didn't rush things, I was ready and it was the right person so I don't see where's the problem.
If at 16, you weren't ready, that's good too
And I am not irresponsible or crazy , I take the contrcp. pill, I use condoms and by the way being sexually active doesn't mean to have sex with everybody all the time.
I'm not here to be judged and if you are scandalized , well , ok , um

Maybe not if you grew up in a trailer park... but single mothers at 16 rarely get a job that gets them enough to pay the bills much less get out of poverty.

And trust me... the world really isn't any different now than it was when I was 16... if anything single teenage moms had MORE opportunities back then. Because they are lucky to graduate high school much less attend college.

Incidentally... if you think you can't get pregnant using condoms AND the Pill... you are in for a rude awakening... we have a moderator who is registered Nurse.. who works in Obstetrics (think pregnant women) and she managed to not just once but twice... And she was far less likely to do it wrong than you are at 16.

Let me tell you a little story.

My mom suffered through breast cancer twice, the second time ended up taking her life. The first time, she removed the breast with the cancer, and the lymph nodes. So, she had one breast. The other side was scar, a horrible scar. In fact, I remember when she showed it to me. I still remember my reaction, a reaction I wish I could take back to this day. I was horrified and I couldn't stop myself from showing it.

She never considered reconstructive surgery, not only because of the cost, and the surgery (she'd had too many surgeries in her life), but because of the scar tissue. She didn't even have a nipple on that breast. Nothing but a very large scar.

She went swimming with me every week (that was one of our things), we went to the mountains, and she'd sit on the beach in her bathing suit, no prosthetics, nothing to cover the fact that she only had one breast.

Did it bother her? Hell yes it did! She often told me that she didn't even feel like a woman anymore because she lost a breast. She was a C cup. So she had one C cup breast, and then nothing but a scar on the other side. Talk about size difference.

Did that stop her? No. She was grateful to have what she had. Her life.

You're 16, you don't have cancer, and your breasts are not done growing, but you're complaining?

Sorry, but I can't gather up any sympathy for you.

Good luck.

Yes , it's a very very sad story , what a strong women , but we are here to talk about problems that we would always keep for ourselves. I had never NEVER N E V E R tell about my worries to someone. When I posted this , I was totally honest about what I feel. Does it mean that this is all my life ? No , absolutely not. For once, I thought that people would finally take this weakness and help me , instead of using it to put me down. Everyday , I wake up , smile , laugh, enjoy life leaving my worries behind me ? I'm not grateful , oh you think ? I can't believe after all the efforts and the pain , someone told me ' but you're complaing ?' Did I mention about my twin sister, the only one who would always be there for me , she got hit by an alcoolic , he was driving a red 4x4, I will always remember this picture from the police station, it was only about 11 pm and she was walking down the road to our house , at only 5min , she died in the ambulance , she bled to die, she knows I love her , but the fact is , I didn't tell her how amazing she was and how I love her more than everything.. only 14 yrs old life isn't fair no ? She left with a part of me.My mother never been there for me , but at the funerals she acted like the perfect mother, it was like watching a comedy, she was good though , everyone took her in pity, how cute awn ? My father , who was the only family I had after my sister died, my only reassurance, I was in deep depression and I stayed at home for 3months because I couldn't even talk , the worst , I couldn't even cry , I don't know maybe it was just to shock. My dad had a hard time with my sister's death to. He committed suicide 13 months after , my dad , my hero , my everything , gone, g o n e , why me ? Yes this is what I think every morning when I wake up. My life is hell and I'm not even the worst. Somewhere on the planet , my life looks like paradise to someone who is poor , beated by his parents, and child soldier or I don't know. I was just asking for some help because my breast affects myself esteem and my life would be easier with a good self esteem. I didn't insult you or said that I would kill myself because I have a small breast. I was just asking for some help , I never asked for someone to judge my life or to tell me how awful I am to be not grateful about what life gives me. I am grateful , I'm alive , I always thought , what if that night, I was me who was walking down the street coming back form our friend's house , what if , but no , I have the chance to become someone and shine, a chance that she doesn't have anymore. I lost a lot , but I know that life is good and it will give me a lot too.
thanks for all this, wow I can't believe it
I rote all this
I don't know why , maybe caus it's been inside my heart for too long I guess

I know many teenagers that aren't stupid (your word not mine), and don't take that risk. They wait until they're ready to be parents.

You're using the pill and condoms. J9 posted on this thread, she's a nurse, she works in the labor and delivery department. If anyone knows how pregnancy works, and knows how to avoid it, it's her. She has 4 children, 2 were conceived while on birth control. She's far from stupid, and she's not a teen. So what makes you think that it can't happen to you if it happened to her, twice! And I didn't even mention all the other factors in her life that should have made pregnancy impossible.

You want to live your life. Go for it. Don't come to us when you have a crying baby at home that makes it impossible for you to ever be a teen again.

You can live your life and have fun without having sex.

I don't know if you red , I was saying that I should think about stop and wait until I get older aha

Maybe not if you grew up in a trailer park....but single mothers at 16 rarely get a job that gets them enough to pay the bills much less get out of poverty.

And trust me...the world really isn't any different now than it was when I was 16....if anything single teenage moms had MORE opportunities back then. Because they are lucky to graduate high school much less attend college.

Incidentally...if you think you can't get pregnant using condoms AND the Pill.....you are in for a rude awakening...we have a moderator who is registered Nurse..who works in Obstetrics (think pregnant women) and she managed to not just once but twice.....And she was far less likely to do it wrong than you are at 16.S


Some people grew up with a lovely family and not a lot of money
I grew up with a lot of money , but no family
I would not raise a child at 16
Anyway , I don't plan to get pregnant
Yes, I know

S


Some people grew up with a lovely family and not a lot of money
I grew up with a lot of money , but no family
I would not raise a child at 16
anyways , i dont plan to get pregnant
yes, i know
Few actually PLAN on getting pregnant at 16... very few. But it happens very frequently. And it has significant consequences when you are not an adult with a good full time job. Ones that can affect you for life.

Few actually PLAN on getting pregnant at 16....very few. But it happens very frequently. And it has significant consequences when you are not an adult with a good full time job. Ones that can affect you for life.

That's why I was saying that I was seriously considering the need to wait until I get older
By the way , I know this comment wasn't from you , but I don't consider the fact that I'm not the only one as an excuse , it was just to show you that everybody makes mistakes , nobody's perfect , and I know that it will be more safe to wait ,
'foolish' ah , put down a 16yrs old girl , I hope you feel better now , I didn't disrespect you or ask you anything , but may you keep your negative qualifiers for yourself

Appreciated ,

No one "put you down". We care about you, otherwise we wouldn't invest the time to try and get you to change your ways.

Yes , it's a very very sad story , what a strong women , but we are here to talk about problems that we would always keep for ourselves. I had never NEVER N E V E R tell about my worries to someone. When I posted this , I was totally honest about what I feel. Does it mean that this is all my life ? No , absolutely not. For once, I thought that people would finally take this weakness and help me , instead of using it to put me down. Everyday , I wake up , smile , laugh, enjoy life leaving my worries behind me ? I'm not grateful , oh you think ? I can't believe after all the efforts and the pain , someone told me ' but you're complaing ?' Did I mention about my twin sister, the only one who would always be there for me , she got hit by an alcoolic , he was driving a red 4x4, I will always remember this picture from the police station, it was only about 11 pm and she was walking down the road to our house , at only 5min , she died in the ambulance , she bled to die, she knows i love her , but the fact is , i didn't tell her how amazing she was and how i love her more than everything.. only 14 yrs old life isnt fair no ? She left with a part of me.My mother never been there for me , but at the funerals she acted like the perfect mother, it was like watching a comedy, she was good tho , everyone took her in pity, how cute awn ? My father , who was the only family I had after my sister died, my only reassurance, i was in deep depression and i stayed at home for 3months because i couldn't even talk , the worst , i couldn't even cry , i dont know maybe it was just to shock. My dad had a hard time with my sister's death to. He commited suicide 13 months after , my dad , my hero , my everything , gone, g o n e , why me ? yes this is what I think every morning when I wake up. My life is hell and im not even the worst. Somewhere on the planet , my life looks like paradise to someone who is poor , beated by his parents, and child soldier or i dont know. I was just asking for some help because my breast affects my self esteem and my life would be easier with a good self esteem. I didn't insult you or said that i would kill myself because i have a small breast. I was just asking for some help , I never asked for someone to judge my life or to tell me how awful i am to be not grateful about what life gives me. I am grateful , I'm alive , I always thought , what if that night, I was me who was walking down the street comming back form our friend's house , what if , but no , i have the chance to become someone and shine, a chance that she doesnt have anymore. I lost a lot , but I know that life is good and it will give me a lot too.
thanks for all this, wow i can't believe it
i rote all this
i dont know why , maybe caus it's been inside my heart for too long i guess


I'm sorry for all your pain. I won't begin to tell you my story, but know that you're not the only one in life that's suffered.

I will answer your question.

The only way to enlarge your breasts is surgery. At the age of 16 you're not legally allowed to make the decision. In other words, you're stuck with the breasts you have until you're at least 18.

Breast enlargement will cost $5000 and up, depending on where you live, and the surgeon performing the surgery. Five thousand is on the very cheap end for this type of surgery. Start saving now if this is what you want.

There is no other way to enlarge your breasts.

What you're feeling is normal. You're young, your breasts are still growing, and changing, and will continue to change throughout your entire life. But, if you really can't handle the way you are, start saving for that breast enlargement now, you'll be legally allowed to go for it at the age of 18. Start researching the side effects and dangers of this sort of surgery now.

One last thing. Most men hate fake breasts. They don't look natural, and they don't feel natural. But, that's the only real option if you want larger breasts.

Good luck.

No one "put you down". We care about you, otherwise we wouldn't invest the time to try and get you to change your ways.

There are ways to help , but saying I'm not grateful of life , or I'm a foolish teen , or that you can't have any pity or I don't remember the word she used (btw I'm not trying to have your pity, I don't need it) is maybe not the best way, I'm just trying to explain some problems that I would like to solve, I'm trying my best to explain clearly what is going on in my life and my mind in an other language than mine, I know these aren't all your words but I know what you're all thinking , there's no need to establish a judgement on me by a part of my life that I'm not sure about what I really should do , I'm young , I still have so much to learn , and I wasn't trying to answer with thought response, I was saying exactly what is going in my mind , my questions , I'm not here to make you mad guys , just to learn and hear your advices
That's all I want , each thing I'm saying is not a game or anything , it's from the deep of my heart , things that nobody knows , nobody knows how I really feel ,
That's all I had to say

that's why I was saying that I was seriously considering the need to wait until i get older
btw , i know this comment wasn't from you , but i dont consider the fact that im not the only one as an excuse , it was just to show you that everybody makes mistakes , nobody's perfect , and I know that it will be more safe to wait ,
'foolish' ah , put down a 16yrs old girl , i hope you feel better now , i didnt disrespect you or ask you anything , but may you keep your negative qualifiers for yourself

appreciated ,
Perhaps if you dial back the attitude way back... because I wasn't being disrespectful... but you certainly are.

I could just sit back and laugh when you make mistakes that can't be fixed... but instead I took the time to tell you what WILL happen because I've actually seen it happen time and time again. Not surprisingly to other girls who thought they had all the answers... and a lot of attitude.

Nothing brings them to reality faster than feeding a baby every hour or two for the next several months. And finding out how hard it is to find a guy that age willing to raise another guys kid... when dad heads for the hills.

I've been seeing that happen since I was in the 7th grade to girls I grew up with... which was oh... like the last 40 years. Some things really don't get easier or better as time goes on. This is one of those. You can listen to what we have to say or find out for yourself... the choice is yours.

I'm sorry for all your pain. I won't begin to tell you my story, but know that you're not the only one in life that's suffered.

I will answer your question.

The only way to enlarge your breasts is surgery. At the age of 16 you're not legally allowed to make the decision. In other words, you're stuck with the breasts you have until you're at least 18.

Breast enlargement will cost $5000 and up, depending on where you live, and the surgeon performing the surgery. Five thousand is on the very cheap end for this type of surgery. Start saving now if this is what you want.

There is no other way to enlarge your breasts.

What you're feeling is normal. You're young, your breasts are still growing, and changing, and will continue to change throughout your entire life. But, if you really can't handle the way you are, start saving for that breast enlargement now, you'll be legally allowed to go for it at the age of 18. Start researching the side effects and dangers of this sort of surgery now.

One last thing. Most men hate fake breasts. They don't look natural, and they don't feel natural. But, that's the only real option if you want larger breasts.

Good luck.


I need to make sure that I really want fake boobs , there's no turning back and I don't want to have regrets
Thanks

I need to make sure that I really want fake boobs , theres no turning back and i dont want to have regrets
thanks
Table this until at least age 21 or even after you have had your first child. Hormone changes, weight gains and losses, exercises/yoga, illness, breast cancer surgery -- so much can affect how large your breasts are and how they look. You are not your breasts. And larger breasts tend to sag as you age.

Perhaps if you dial back the attitude way back....because I wasn't being disrespectful...but you certainly are.

I could just sit back and laugh when you make mistakes that can't be fixed....but instead I took the time to tell you what WILL happen because I've actually seen it happen time and time again. Not surprisingly to other girls who thought they had all the answers....and a lot of attitude.

Nothing brings them to reality faster than feeding a baby every hour or two for the next several months. And finding out how hard it is to find a guy that age willing to raise another guys kid.....when dad heads for the hills.

I've been seeing that happen since I was in the 7th grade to girls I grew up with...which was oh.....like the last 40 years. Some things really don't get easier or better as time goes on. This is one of those. You can listen to what we have to say or find out for yourself....the choice is yours.

I'm sorry if you find me disrespectful or rude ,
And I can imagine how crazy it would be , I will do what it need
You are wrong on how you see me , I'm not like you think but I will do everything to make sure that I don't get pregnant , 100% , not 99% not 96% , I have all to succeed and I don't want to mess all that up and regret it for the rest of my life

Fake boobs have to be redone abut every 10 - 12 years or they do something really ugly called doorknobing. Where the skin behind the implant gets hard and shrinks which isn't pleasant looking. And feels even worse.

I'm a guy... I like big boobs... I like medium boobs... and I like tiny boobs... what I dislike are fake boobs... and I can spot fakes very quickly.

I'm sorry if you find me disrespectful or rude ,
and I can imagine how crazy it would be , I will do what it need
you are wrong on how you see me , I'm not like you think but I will do everything to make sure that I don't get pregnant , 100% , not 99% not 96% , I have all to succeed and i don't want to mess all that up and regret it for the rest of my life

Even 100% isn't enough... because nothing is 100% effective in preventing pregnancy short of not messing with members of the opposite sex completely. Seriously... all it takes is the way for a single sperm to get from his penis to your vaginal opening... and the possibility will be there for it to make it the rest of they way to your uterus.

Since they are microscopic... and present before he even gets an erection... you never know how many can get on your hands, his hands or anything else that touches him than you.

And like I said... then its all a matter of statistics.

You can do everything absolutely like you are supposed to and it just happens. Make one mistake and your odds go up significantly.

You have to view it not as how can I prevent it... because you can't... you can only reduce the odds of it happening. As you will be finding out in a few years... things are never as clean or clear as they may appear at your age... and yes... we've been your age.. and we remember it well... I even remember the actual smell of the perfume certain girls used on the 8th grade as an example of how vivid my memories of that time are.

make sure that I don't get pregnant , 100% , not 99% not 96% , I have all to succeed and i don't want to mess all that up and regret it for the rest of my life
Every day girls and women post on this site saying the same thing and then asking if their symptoms mean they are pregnant.

Fake boobs have to be redone abut every 10 - 12 years or they do something really ugly called doorknobing. where the skin behind the implant gets hard and shrinks which isn't pleasant looking. and feels even worse.

I'm a guy.....I like big boobs...I like medium boobs...and I like tiny boobs....what I dislike are fake boobs....and I can spot fakes very quickly.


But I it can't be normal to be undevlopped as I am , because all my body looks normal , its just my breast I just don't understand why ,
If it doesn't grow , I would be extremely disappointed , because I don't want to look fake

but i it can't be normal to be undevlopped as i am , because all my body looks normal , its just my breast i just dont understand why ,
if it doesnt grow , i would be extremely disappointed , because i dont want to look fake
For Pete's sake! You are only 16!! Give your body time to finish growing.

Every day girls and women post on this site saying the same thing and then asking if their symptoms mean they are pregnant.

I am saying that I really don't want to get pregnant and I would do everything to make sure I'm on a good way, why do you absolutely need to tell me that I won't succeed?
I don't really care about what you are thinking because I know that I can do it , I'm not addicted , it's all about will

it's all about will
Not it's not. It's all about abstinence (if you don't want to risk getting pregnant).

but i it can't be normal to be undevlopped as i am , because all my body looks normal , its just my breast i just dont understand why ,
if it doesnt grow , i would be extremely disappointed , because i dont want to look fake

Trust me... you are normal... and at 16 you are not anywhere near them stopping to grow.

A cups are not uncommon.. a B cup is VERY common BOTH at your age.

If you are even a AAA you have some development... I'm guessing you don't have to stuff a AAA bra.

You may be at the point where you might not get any taller... but breast grown is a very different thing.

And as was mentioned... gravity takes a toll on the larger ones...

I've dated a couple girls that were DD... but know what... I married a woman with A cups... and I'm perfectly happy with them... have been for over 20 years.

An A cup might upset some women... but they do something that women will appreciate as they age... they are most likely to defy gravity. And remain both youthful and even perky to 50 and beyond...

Even 100% isn't enough......because nothing is 100% effective in preventing pregnancy short of not messing with members of the opposite sex completely. Seriously....all it takes is the way for a single sperm to get from his penis to your vaginal opening...and the possibility will be there for it to make it the rest of they way to your uterus.

Since they are microscopic....and present before he even gets an erection...you never know how many can get on your hands, his hands or anything else that touches him than you.

And like I said....then its all a matter of statistics.

You can do everything absolutely like you are supposed to and it just happens. Make one mistake and your odds go up significantly.

You have to view it not as how can I prevent it...because you can't....you can only reduce the odds of it happening. As you will be finding out in a few years...things are never as clean or clear as they may appear at your age.....and yes....we've been your age..and we remember it well....I even remember the actual smell of the perfume certain girls used on the 8th grade as an example of how vivid my memories of that time are.

As 100% I was saying that I just won't have sex

as 100% I was saying that I just won't have sex

Good... there is plenty of time for that after college...

Breasts continue to develop until lactation begins. Thus, your breasts will continue to grow until you have a child and your breasts begin to produce colostrum and/or milk.

Trust me....you are normal....and at 16 you are not anywhere near them stopping to grow.

A cups are not uncommon..a B cup is VERY common BOTH at your age.

If you are even a AAA you have some development....I'm guessing you don't have to stuff a AAA bra.

You may be at the point where you might not get any taller...but breast grown is a very different thing.

And as was mentioned....gravity takes a toll on the larger ones....

I've dated a couple girls that were DD....but know what...I married a woman with A cups...and I'm perfectly happy with them...have been for over 20 years.

An A cup might upset some women....but they do something that women will appreciate as they age.....they are most likely to defy gravity. And remain both youthful and even perky to 50 and beyond....


But I don't even a whole A cup
The biggest one is about 4cm from my chest to the top of my breast the other one is about 2,5 cm , If I had a small breast , I would probably like to have bigger boobs but I wouldn't bother me that much , but I have microscopic boobs

Your breasts will continue to develop until you have children.

Good.... there is plenty of time for that after college...

Yes , I don't need to have sex , I can live without it

Your breasts will continue to develop until you have children.

In years from now, and some women are 50 years old and are still flat chested but at the moment , I'm just wondering why am I slow in my breast puberty , maybe I should go to the doctor , because I don't even know if we can call this boobs

but i dont even a whole A cup
the biggest one is about 4cm from my chest to the top of my breast the other one is about 2,5 cm , If I had a small breast , i would probably like to have bigger boobs but i wouldn't bother me that much , but i have microscopic boobs

AAA, or AA are both smaller than a full A. You aren't completely undeveloped... I have known a couple females that had absolutely no development, as in none.at all... there is a medical condition where that happens.. but the name of it escapes me at the moment.

You have plenty of time for them to grow... a lot of girls are late bloomers.

And all of the late bloomers I have known... are the ones who kept their looks a lot later in life than the early developers who tended on average to show their age much earlier..

My wife was a late bloomer... at 49 she can wear a bikini at the beach and look better than a lot of the 20 something women. And she looks about 15 year younger than she is.

SO... look at the positive side... not dwell on the negative.

Besides... Younger guys are more likely to look at your face than just your chest...

Not it's not. It's all about abstinence (if you don't want to risk getting pregnant).


The will of not having sex , this is exactly what I was saying
Without will , you won't go far

AAA, or AA are both smaller than a full A. You aren't completely undeveloped....I have known a couple females that had absolutely no development, as in none.at all....there is a medical condition where that happens..but the name of it escapes me at the moment.

You have plenty of time for them to grow....a lot of girls are late bloomers.

And all of the late bloomers I have known...are the ones who kept their looks a lot later in life than the early developers who tended on average to show their age much earlier..

My wife was a late bloomer....at 49 she can wear a bikini at the beach and look better than a lot of the 20 something women. And she looks about 15 year younger than she is.

SO...look at the positive side...not dwell on the negative.

Besides.....Younger guys are more likely to look at your face than just your chest....

I don't have any problems with boys for that , my breast look normal because of the push up bras, I don't think boys like me for my breast and I prefer it like this

For Pete's sake! You are only 16!!!! Give your body time to finish growing.

I am not asking for big boobs , only for something normal for my age , maybe a full A , I'm almost 17 and I still don't have boobs , its normal that I worry about it

I am not asking for big boobs , only for something normal for my age , maybe a full A , I'm almost 17 and i still dont have boobs , its normal that i worry about it
The high-fashion models on the Paris runways don't have them either. And you can wear horizontal stripes, huge florals, and lot of different styles without burstng out of your clothes or looking like a clown.

The high-fashion models on the Paris runways don't have them either. And you can wear horizontal stripes, huge florals, and lot of different styles without burstng out of your clothes or looking like a clown.


This is the only way I could be happy :')
I need to become a high fashion model

I am not asking for big boobs , only for something normal for my age , maybe a full A , I'm almost 17 and i still dont have boobs , its normal that i worry about it

Look Im going to say it again. As of right now you have no idea where your going to end up as far as body changes. Your still in the growth change. Why not concentrate on what you do have and celebrate your uniqueness as a person. What your going to find in your lifetime is that the only person that your really going to have to deal with is the one in the mirror. Now is the best time to start making good choices. The only concern I would have at this time is that your focusing on something that really doesn't matter to most. If you look at many of the high fashion magazines you will notice that those girls look just like you. So think about that for a minute. Your unique. Go celebrate it. Concentrate on getting through school and choosing your life path.

I will do everything to make sure that I don't get pregnant , 100% , not 99% not 96% , I have all to succeed and i don't want to mess all that up and regret it for the rest of my life


Yes , I don't need to have sex , I can live without it

OK, That's better. I was going to jump on the first quote, but the second one is what we are trying to get through. The only way to be 100% sure you won't get pregnant is not to engage in sexual intercourse.


but i it can't be normal to be undevlopped as i am , because all my body looks normal , its just my breast i just dont understand why ,
if it doesnt grow ,

This is the other point we have been trying to make. There is NO normal. Different girls develop differently and you just need let your body develop naturally and not worry about being a late bloomer.

Sure ask your doctor and they will tell you the same thing.

OK, That's better. I was going to jump on the first quote, but the second one is what we are trying to get through. The only way to be 100% sure you won't get pregnant is not to engage in sexual intercourse.



This is the other point we have been trying to make. There is NO normal. Different girls develop differently and you just need let your body develop naturally and not worry about being a late bloomer.

Sure ask your doctor and they will tell you the same thing.


Thanks guys , I'm going to work on this xx