This has been bothering me for a while. Basically, a few weeks ago I was masturbating in bed via clitoral stimulation. I was laying on my stomach at the time and started to press my face into my pillow to the point where I couldn't breathe well. Eventually I couldn't breathe at all (erotic asphyxiation I believe it's called) I get off this way sometimes because I find that my orgasms are always stronger when I can't breathe and feel on the verge of passing out.

Anyway the orgasm that followed this was so intense that I immediately felt liquid between my legs as I was coming. This sensation has never happened to me before. I mean, sometimes I feel a little "trickle" of wetness during a particularly strong orgasm. But it felt like a lot more than usual. I was so scared and freaked out that I had peed myself, but I found that it didn't smell like anything. And I didn't have an 'urge to pee' before or after this orgasm.

I think I squirted, I'm almost certain but still I can't help wondering what happened. :S What do you think? Can I celebrate my first time squirting, or did I just nearly wet the bed? Lol u_u

Your answer is does it smell like pee? That is how to tell

The same nerves and muscles that contract during an orgasm also contract around the very nearby bladder. I'm betting it was urine.

your answer is does it smell like pee? That is how to tell

True, urine has a distinct smell. I remember that I kept thinking 'did I pee? But I don't smell urine.' I also didn't have an 'urge' to urinate before or after this entire event.


The same nerves and muscles that contract during an orgasm also contract around the very nearby bladder. I'm betting it was urine.

It didn't smell like urine. It didn't smell at all actually and I never had the urge to 'go' while any of this was happen, nor before or after. I know nearly all women are supposed to be able to squirt. I'm just hoping I did. I've had strong orgasms before wherein I'd feel some sort of liquid "leaving" me... and I knew it wasn't urine. This time felt like one of those times, only my orgasm was much stronger thanks to the breathless factor, only with a lot more fluid. : /

Then it wasn't

True, urine has a distinct smell.
No, urine doesn't always have a smell.

And which orifice did it come from?

No, urine doesn't always have a smell.

And which orifice did it come from?

I don't think she could answer this. It would be impossible to know

I don't think she could answer this. It would be impossible to know
Her mind was elsewhere.

then it wasn't

Wasn't what?

Her mind was elsewhere.

Yes, that too

Her mind was elsewhere.

Pretty much.


I don't think she could answer this. It would be impossible to know

I wasn't aware that there were different places where a woman urinates and 'squirts' from. I know men ejaculate and urinate from the same place. Is it different for women or something? Anyway, you're pretty much right. I have no way of knowing this. I just know it didn't smell like urine, and I didn't have the urge to pee during any this experience. : /

I'm kind of convinced I did at this point. I guess I just wanted some confirmation in case there's a chance that I'm wrong. (Despite being 23, I don't have much sexual experience at all).

I wasn't aware that there were different places where a woman urinates and 'squirts' from. I know men ejaculate and urinate from the same place. Is it different for women or something? Anyway, you're pretty much right. I have no way of knowing this. I just know it didn't smell like urine, and I didn't have the urge to pee during any this experience. : /
You have a urinary system and urinate from one orifice (opening). You have a reproductive system and bleed/deliver babies from that orifice. You have a digestive system and defecate from that orifice.They are very close to each other. Google for illustrations of female anatomy.

A male's two systems (urinary and reproductive) are connected with only one orifice and are "policed" by the prostate gland. A male cannot urinate while he orgasms. (If he does, he needs to see a doctor.) He also has a digestive system and orifice.

Women produce 3 fluids out of the vagina (more of course if disease is present):
- a clear to milky gluey one that can appear anytime, but often mid-cycle (it aids in moving sperm into the uterus)
- a lubricating one that aids in intercourse (the one that KY jelly approximates)
- and a clear thin ejaculate out of tiny glands near the vaginal opening called the Skene's glands. It can squirt or gush or just dribble down. It can be a lot, a little, or none at all. Not many women ever get a lot, and plenty of women claim they never have it. The glands' location can vary a lot, they are extremely tiny, and it seems that a few women don't even have them. They actually open into the urethra, hence many women think they have peed. I don't think many studies have been done about them. The ejaculate is filtered blood plasma, so it is clear. Many women are embarrassed, thinking they have peed, and go to doctors to ask to stop the peeing, so it's possible that there are more women 'ejaculating' than the world realizes.
Strangely enough the Skene's glands are analogous to the prostate.

(As for putting your face in a pillow, I wouldn't call that asphyxiation. But at least it's safe.)

Correction- the fluid doesn't come out of the urethra. The glands are just very close to it.
Also, the correct word is homologous, not analogous, to the prostate. Both produce a fluid of similar composition.

Its pee... and there is no credible medical evidence to back up any other claims.

And its not that uncomon to leak some from the bladder because of the muscles involved.

Right pee doesn't always smell but there are ways to tell the difference. ''And I didn't have an 'urge to pee' before or after this orgasm'' If you pee a lot right before hand and you know your blatter IS empty. And then you still 'pee' enough to drench the bed. Also you say that there is only one orifice but you need to look up the anatomy for there. My guy can tell the difference. I have learned to tell the difference at least 5 different ways. There is more than just the smell. I just mentioned smell for starters.

Smoothy and I have debated this before, a long time ago, and were told by the expert in charge that we are not to think that 'squirting' is credible.

But, this happened to me years ago, and only once ever, I did not have a weak bladder at the time and when it happened it threw me for a loop and it was very confusing and after reading up on unusual occurrences decided that it was not urine; it was just so much liquid and happened so fast directly during an orgasm. I was very embarrassed but definitely curious. I still think it was 'squirting' and I isn't no spring chicken any more and still believe it.

Smoothy, what the heck, how do you know, you are a male for heavens sake but you have your own opinion god knows and you are entitled to it. There are a lot of things that you can't put a scientific label on and this may be one of them.

To say unequivocably that 'its urine' and sign off is a cop out.

Smoothy and i have debated this before, a long time ago, and were told by the expert in charge that we are not to think that 'squirting' is credible.

But, this happened to me years ago, and only once ever, i did not have a weak bladder at the time and when it happened it threw me for a loop and it was very confusing and after reading up on unusual occurrences decided that it was not urine; it was just so much liquid and happened so fast directly during an orgasm. I was very embarrassed but definitely curious.

Smoothy, what the heck, how do you know, you are a male for heavens sake but you have your own opinion god knows and you are entitled to it. There are a lot of things that you can't put a scientific label on and this may be one of them.

To say unequivocably that 'its urine' and sign off is a cop out.

How do I know? Because I'm the one that had my face down there.. which is a heck of a lot closer than any heterosexual woman has.

And while I am faithfully married now... I was single once and got around.

And no matter how well hydrated she might be.. there will always be a component of urea in it... and I've got a very accute sense of smell. Besides... when your face is inches away.. you can see which orifice produces what. Something that's dificult at best for any female that can't accomplish what the average canine is famous for.

But... some people get into the gloden shower thing... and if they do more power to them (its just not my thing)... and bladder leakage is very common with women.. particularly after they have had kids or get older.

Nothing to be ashamed of... it happens. Just like letting a fart slip during orgasms.

But like you mentioned... we were told unless on this site there is credible medical evidence of it... it doesn't happen. And personally I'm not closed minded to it if there ever is a real medical study that is credible with a very large sample of subjects that ever proves it definitvely. But like levitation and telepathy... I've got to see proof before I accept it.


People claim they can levitate and are telepathic... its not a cop out if I say they are full of it... when they can't prove it.

Right pee doesn't always smell but there are ways to tell the difference.
And those ways are what?

''And I didn't have an 'urge to pee' before or after this orgasm'' If you pee a lot right before hand and you know your blatter IS empty.
But the bladder doesn't stay empty. During masturbation, urine enters the bladder.

Also you say that there is only one orifice but you need to look up the anatomy for there.
Three openings for women and only two for men.

From everything I have heard through the years it only must happen with a small percentage of woman. Then it only happens to me when I haven't had sex for at least a couple weeks and the fluid seems to build up. The more sex you have the less the fluid gets to build up if it happens to you at all. Then I guess it still doesn't in some women.I take vitamin B which makes my pee a distinct color and odor. Just to name a couple more ways I can tell. Just because it doesn't happen to some women they want to be in denial.

And those ways are what?

But the bladder doesn't stay empty. During masturbation, urine enters the bladder.

Three openings for women and only two for men.

1. So the bladder will build up to where you pee enough to drench a beach towel or more in that amount of time AFTER you just emptied your bladder?

2. I meant women have 2 in the front wasn't including the 3rd.

And notice... how nobody ever even thought they did this before porn movies (which are nothing more than women Peeing)... the power of suggestion can make people believe a lot of things...

How many people thought "The Force" was a real thing after the First Star Wars movie? Or that Aliens abduct Drunks from trailer parks every week if they didn't hear about it someplace else.

Simply believing something doesn't make it real.

Certain people with mental disorders hear voices talking to them... and to them it might be very real, just not to the rest of us.

Many people believe Bigfoot is real... as well as the Yetti... but anyone see any physical proof... like a body? All they got to do is show us a body or skeliton. We don't HAVE to "take their word for it".

This isn't a discussion board, but it is the only board appropriate for discussing squirting. If the discussion gets heated, it will be closed without further notice.

Please keep it civil.

I don't care if nobody believes me but when a person knows what they saw and has heard from others with the same experiences, in the same ways, they know they aren't crazy. Yes a portion of it could be pee but often a lot of it is this fluid build up. People deny and want case studies until it happens to them. Then they know.

Did anyone read what I wrote? It was based on something called research, in several places.
Smoothy, did you even check out Skene's glands? I was so tempted to give you a negative. You may have been around, but I also checked out some chat in addition to the science, and there are men out there who have run into squirting.

And tickle, I'm shocked at 'we were told by the expert in charge' not to believe.

The only shocking thing is how few studies have been done. Masters and Johnson did some - they claim that the lubricant during sex does not come from the Bartholin's gland but from further inside the vagina, something still not clearly explained or totally agreed upon.
(If I remember correctly, reading years ago, they used plastic penises with cameras inside. For starters/)

@cat. I don't think it will get 'heated', not from me anyway. I am done mentioning squirting, but so far it has been a good discussion, informative and civil. It is such a shame we can't express facial expressions and can only say LOL which expression I abhor.

I got my ears boxed once when it did get heated, don't want to go there again!
oh, yes ****laughing****

Women produce 3 fluids out of the vagina (more of course if disease is present):
- a clear to milky gluey one that can appear anytime, but often mid-cycle (it aids in moving sperm into the uterus)
- a lubricating one that aids in intercourse (the one that KY jelly approximates)
- and a clear thin ejaculate out of tiny glands near the vaginal opening called the Skene's glands. It can squirt or gush or just dribble down. It can be a lot, a little, or none at all. Not many women ever get a lot, and plenty of women claim they never have it. The glands' location can vary a lot, they are extremely tiny, and it seems that a few women don't even have them. They actually open into the urethra, hence many women think they have peed. I don't think many studies have been done about them. The ejaculate is filtered blood plasma, so it is clear. Many women are embarrassed, thinking they have peed, and go to doctors to ask to stop the peeing, so it's possible that there are more women 'ejaculating' than the world realizes.
Strangely enough the Skene's glands are analogous to the prostate.

(As for putting your face in a pillow, I wouldn't call that asphyxiation. But at least it's safe.)

Correction- the fluid doesn't come out of the urethra. The glands are just very close to it.
Also, the correct word is homologous, not analogous, to the prostate. Both produce a fluid of similar composition.

Yes, thank you, I wasn't even getting into the milky part I have experienced yet!

Medical science has proven we have bladders... hearts... thyroid glands, etc... they should be able to prove this as well. It's that simple. With.Magnetic Resonance imaging... there is nothing invisible to the human anatamy. Even without cutting up cadavers.

THEY HAVE. SKENE'S GLANDS. Discovered by an intrepid guy named SKENE.

THEY HAVE. SKENE'S GLANDS. Discovered by an intrepid guy named SKENE.

Sneeze glands? Then where are the credible medical studies...

This question is asked somewhat frequently - the ensuing discussion then causes the thread to be closed.

I'd say to research the other AMHD threads on the subject.

Just wondering, do you follow all the medical case studies? I hear of new case studies all the time and still can't keep up with them. I study for myself. Read a lot of things from pros to cons and come up with pretty accurate information once its all sorted out. If you want to learn more about something Google it and be open to the articles opposing your point of view. Then make an honest conclusion even if its only coming to accept that a small percentage may be fluid while my experience is a small percentage is urine but that's experience not case study. I am only sticking up for what I know to believe. Not trying to heat anything. So this is my last comment before someone ends up closing the thread. I say Joypulv is credible on this and she only made 1 of the points.

@Nohelp. Yes I agree joy is credible, but you made some good points as well.

Some people get off on peeing on people and themselves so go figure.

Sometimes the answers here are repetitive and childish.
I can't tell if it's because the original question had a kind of risqué TMI flavor, or if people really like to think they know all about sex and physiology, or if it's something else.
I didn't know a third of what I learned researching this topic.
I've been wondering about my secretions for about 50 of my 66 years.
We certainly know all about MEN and THEIR precious fluids, don't we.

Play nice. And post sources. Until we have respectable peer-reviewed sources on this phenomenon we're all going to have to have our own opinions and there are NO right answers.