Manamary
Jun 29, 2013, 07:14 PM
My daughter is 39. She has been married for 15 years, the man she is married to has been an alcoholic and he is a compulsive liar. Things have been going on there for a long time, most of the time I have been able to keep quiet. My daughter has medical problems I believe she may be bipolar.
For years she would need money, come to me and I gave her money. Sometimes 20.00 sometimes groceries, paying doctor bills, paying mortgage when she could not pay, paying for gasoline, pay for prescriptions. Yet I later find out that she had money but didn't want to spend it because she was taking her family to amusement park and stay a few nights. Her husband came over to my home, told me unbelieveable stories that he claims she does, getting angry and screams, take a knife and tears up his good suits.
Their son said he doesn't want to live there anymore wants to be with his dad. I talked to her mother in law whom she never got along with, but she was concerned about my daughters behavior. She texted me and told me that she forbids me to talk to her mother in law. I told her that the only reason she called was the same reason her husband said, telling me that he feels she is abusing prescription drugs and sleeps the entire weekend. My daughter sent me a horrible text saying to F%(*( you and that I could never see the children again and I was dead to her and she hates me. Her husband is a well known liar, she knows this, yet he throws it on me saying it was me. She has not contacted me and said she never would.
I love my daughter and my grandchildren, what will I do? You can't talk to her, she gets this crazy look in her eyes and screams... she won't listen to a word you say, she screams. Her twin brother told me that he can't have a relationship with her because of how she acts.
I love my daughter but I just don't think I can go on much longer with her in my and my grandchildren's lives.
For years she would need money, come to me and I gave her money. Sometimes 20.00 sometimes groceries, paying doctor bills, paying mortgage when she could not pay, paying for gasoline, pay for prescriptions. Yet I later find out that she had money but didn't want to spend it because she was taking her family to amusement park and stay a few nights. Her husband came over to my home, told me unbelieveable stories that he claims she does, getting angry and screams, take a knife and tears up his good suits.
Their son said he doesn't want to live there anymore wants to be with his dad. I talked to her mother in law whom she never got along with, but she was concerned about my daughters behavior. She texted me and told me that she forbids me to talk to her mother in law. I told her that the only reason she called was the same reason her husband said, telling me that he feels she is abusing prescription drugs and sleeps the entire weekend. My daughter sent me a horrible text saying to F%(*( you and that I could never see the children again and I was dead to her and she hates me. Her husband is a well known liar, she knows this, yet he throws it on me saying it was me. She has not contacted me and said she never would.
I love my daughter and my grandchildren, what will I do? You can't talk to her, she gets this crazy look in her eyes and screams... she won't listen to a word you say, she screams. Her twin brother told me that he can't have a relationship with her because of how she acts.
I love my daughter but I just don't think I can go on much longer with her in my and my grandchildren's lives.