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Rosie522
Mar 24, 2007, 11:46 PM
A man I know and liked, who also liked me, has rung me after 6 months when I thought I would never hear from him again. The last time we spoke it did not end well. Does this mean he is ready for a relationship with me now?

Jiser
Mar 25, 2007, 05:24 AM
No it doesn't. Curiosity is the most likely scenario and in many situations it killed the cat 2!

However if he seems keen? Take it way slow.

s_cianci
Mar 25, 2007, 06:14 AM
I seriously doubt that he's ready for a relationship at the drop of a hat and based on one phone call. You give no indication of how well you knew each other previously. You simply say that you haven't spoken for 6 months and the last time you spoke it "didn't end well." Based on this, it doesn't sound like anything's brewing here.

shygrneyzs
Mar 25, 2007, 06:56 AM
I would not think he is ready for a relationship either. Just a phone call, seeing how you are. Don't read more into this that you can see. I agree with the other responders - take things slow, do not build anticipations or expectations into this phone call.

talaniman
Mar 25, 2007, 07:04 AM
What did he say when he called, you haven't given a lot of info.

louie1
Mar 25, 2007, 09:40 AM
I have a friend that has done this for the last 14 years calling every six months or so going over ground - cut your losses!