For two weeks she is saying I don't like the way you are. I don't like to speak with you.I don't want your relationship, I can be happy without you.

If I ask the reason she smiles and says simply I'm asking...

She obviously wants you to be upset and sad, so instead be positive -- "Cool! That works for me too!" or "I was hoping you would say that!" or "I'm glad we think alike about this!" -- said with a cheery smile. Don't give her any satisfaction that she is upsetting you.

What have you done to the poor girl to upset her so bad?

Sounds like she no longer wants to be your girl friend, give her what she wants and leave her. I would not ask her any other questions. How old are the two of you?

20 and 21


What have you done to the poor girl to upset her so bad?

She was sharing her past I didn't respond well...

Why didn't you react well? Did you share your past as well? How did she react if you did.

Come on now. Out with it. The whole truth. Lil darlin', I can feel for you and I do. But... maybe you two need to communicate further. I am certainly no expert in this area but I have to say that it seems like there definitely needs to be further communication. I know it can be uncomfortable depending upon a few things but try it out. You might be surprised and feel better. Not that I have never played games in my past when I was young especially, but believe me, it's just no good and gets you nowhere fast. It's draining, it's not fun, it's unhealthy,. Give it a go and get back to let us know how it all turned out for you. I'm not only curious but I'm a bit jealous that I can't go back in time and do certain things over. So do it my friend!

Thanks friend for everything... she is not in that stage from noon she is avoiding me...

Why didn't you react well? Did you share your past as well? How did she react if you did.
Yup I have shared my past...

I think you leave her alone and maybe she will cool off maybe not. Hope for the best, plan for the worst.