So a while back I was obsessed with this song but I can't seem to find it or remember what the name of it was.

If I remember the music video correctly it's about these people who are at their fathers funeral in their house and they are walking around the house remembering their childhoods and at the end a wrecking ball crashes into the house.

What type of music was it? Fast or slow? How old?

I'm guessing it's this one --

The Shins – Simple Song (Generative Criticism) | Pop Studies and Rhetoric (http://english104winter2012.wordpress.com/2012/03/21/the-shins-simple-song-generative-criticism/)