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Alayna11
Jun 5, 2013, 01:20 PM
On may 24 I had a abortion because I was forced too because of my parents and boyfriend on June for me AND MY boyfriend had sex and he always pre and it possible that I could get pregnant again I don't want to ask a doctor now because it is too early to telll

Oliver2011
Jun 5, 2013, 01:24 PM
I am sorry but why not try to be a little more responsible? If you are grown up enough to have sex then try to be grown up enough to be responsible.

Alayna11
Jun 5, 2013, 01:27 PM
I really want to know if I could get pregnant again after a abortion? He never in me but he pre .That's how I got pregnant the first time I know it was a stupid move but I just want to make sure I'm still bleeding.

JudyKayTee
Jun 5, 2013, 01:28 PM
Yes, it's possible.

Wouldn't birth control be easier than abortion after abortion?

How old are you? They "made" you have an abortion - against your will.

And your boyfriend cares so little about you that you are possibly pregnant again - he doesn't think there's any danger in abortion after abortion?

If you aren't old enough to protect yourself, your body (which you aren't doing) and aren't old enough to say "no" when being "forced" to have an abortion AND are having sex 2 weeks after an abortion I don't think you should be having sex at all.

Or pick a smarter partner.

odinn7
Jun 5, 2013, 01:30 PM
You really need to become a little more responsible. Abortion is not a form of birth control. I can understand maybe having made that mistake and needing an abortion but don't you learn? I mean really, you're just going to keep having unprotected sex and when you get pregnant, just do an abortion?

If you can't take some sort of responsibility, then you shouldn't be having sex.

J_9
Jun 5, 2013, 03:05 PM
You had an abortion on June 4, yesterday? And you are having unprotected sex already?

No, you probably aren't pregnant, but you most likely have a serious infection. There is a reason they tell you to wait 6 weeks before resuming intercourse.

odinn7
Jun 5, 2013, 03:09 PM
No, read it again. It's confusing but I get that she had the abortion on May 24th, had sex on June 4th... still too early to be messing around.

J_9
Jun 5, 2013, 03:11 PM
My bad, but it still hasn't been 6 weeks, has it?

odinn7
Jun 5, 2013, 03:14 PM
Not even close to 6 weeks. Some people just don't care.

J_9
Jun 5, 2013, 03:16 PM
It's very possible that the OP is pregnant now that I read it again. This would most likely be her ovulation period.

I always have to SMH at the stupidity of some people. Abortion is not birth control. If one is not prepared for parenthood, one should keep their pants on. No one is holding a gun to her head for sex. Whatever happened to "Just Say No?"

JudyKayTee
Jun 5, 2013, 03:38 PM
Maybe she was forced to have sex, just like she was forced to have an abortion.

I GUARANTEE: she is young; if she says no he moves on.

- which he's going to do at some point anyway.

Jake2008
Jun 5, 2013, 04:32 PM
How old are you, and how old is your boyfriend.

Until you are mature enough to assume the consequences of having an baby, stop having sex. You need to be in control of your own body, and your own decisions. Reproductive choice is yours.

I urge you to seek the advice of a doctor, to become better informed as to how to prevent another pregnancy, should you choose to continue playing this dangerous game.

Any unprotected sex could result in pregnancy.

Alty
Jun 5, 2013, 05:07 PM
You need to realize that sex, even with protection, even with more than 3 forms of protection, even if you stand on your head, can result in pregnancy.

Abortion is not a form of birth control, so yes, you could be pregnant again.

How many unwanted pregnancies do you have to have before you figure things out? Not the brightest star in the sky! :(

Alayna11
Jun 7, 2013, 10:04 AM
Is it possible to get pregnant again if I had a aborti
On 2 weeks ago but I took a pregnancy test but I'm still testinh from my last pregnancy

JudyKayTee
Jun 7, 2013, 10:06 AM
Please stop posting the same question over and over. It's been asked and answered before. https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/search.php?searchid=20275412

There is nothing else we can say.

There are several problems here - have you never heard of birth control? Why did you and your boyfriend risk infection and other problems involved with vaginal sex immediately following the abortion?

Right - I know. You were forced to have the abortion, you were forced to have sex right after the abortion.

JudyKayTee
Jun 7, 2013, 10:08 AM
I've asked that the same question, new day, be combined. Apparently OP thinks the answers change every couple of days.

ScottGem
Jun 7, 2013, 10:13 AM
You cannot be forced to have an abortion. You can be pressured, but the decision is yours and yours alone (at least in the US).

And, if you were forced, then you and your boyfriend should have learned a lesson. Obviously, you didn't. But ANY time there is penile insertion there is the risk of pregnancy. No one should be engaging in sexual intercourse unless they are prepared to have a child.

JudyKayTee
Jun 8, 2013, 08:39 AM
I just got a reddie - too cowardly to post the comments on an open board - because I am incorrect in these statements: "Yes, it's possible [to be pregnant]." Apparently it is not pregnant - who knew?

And also: "... your boyfriend... doesn't think there's any danger in abortion after abortion?" because abortions are not dangerous.

Sigh.

odinn7
Jun 8, 2013, 11:50 AM
I just got a reddie - too cowardly to post the comments on an open board

Well look who it is that gave it to you... his views are a little odd to begin with. Of course, I see no reason he gave you that... maybe you hit a nerve.