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ashleestewart18
Jun 1, 2013, 02:00 AM
Im 15 and pregnant by my 18 year old boyfriend I just found out my mother does not know about the pregnancy but I've looked everywhere for answers and I've heard it was legal and it wasent so I don't know I wish I could help... just to let people no if your having sex with an 18 year old in your 15 don't listing to people if you love him it is not rape people are just retarded these days

ashleestewart18
Jun 1, 2013, 02:04 AM
Im 15 my boyfriend is 18 and I just found out I'm pregnant what do I do will he go to jail I need forsure answers my mom don't want to press charges and I love him dearly what should I do and how? He already knows about it but don't want to get in trouble someone help please I live in Indiana is it legal there

ScottGem
Jun 1, 2013, 02:56 AM
I merged your post from where you posted it because the thread you responded to was almost a year old.

It doesn't matter whether you love your boyfriend or not. You are probably under the age of consent which means that legally it is rape. Depending on the laws where you live, it is possible your boyfriend will go to jail!

The age of consent in Indiana is 16 and there is no close in age exceptions. http://age-of-consent.info/states/Indiana

So yes there is a strong possibility your boyfriend will be prosecuted. Even if mom doesn't want to press charges, your school or doctor may be required to report it or anyone else can go to the police. When someone breaks the law, it is not a requirement that the victim press charges. As long as law enforcement founds out they can prosecute.

You and your boyfriend have been very foolish and now must pay the price.

odinn7
Jun 1, 2013, 08:16 AM
In your first question you say your mother doesn't know... in the second question, you say your mother doesn't want to press charges.

So... does she know or not?

AK lawyer
Jun 1, 2013, 09:05 AM
... The age of consent in Indiana is 16 and there is no close in age exceptions. What is the Indiana Legal Age of Consent for 2013? (http://age-of-consent.info/states/Indiana)
...

However, "... The law allows the actor a defense to prosecution if ... if the actor is within 4 years of age of the younger person and the two were in an ongoing dating/romantic relationship. This is not a close in age exception though, but merely a defense in court. ... "

(I disagree that the "not exception but merely defense" distinction-without-a-difference which the writer of the Wikipedia article made.)

Ashleestewart18, were you 15 when you had sex and got pregnant?

ashleestewart18
Jun 1, 2013, 08:06 PM
However, "... The law allows the actor a defense to prosecution if ... if the actor is within 4 years of age of the younger person and the two were in an ongoing dating/romantic relationship. This is not a close in age exception though, but merely a defense in court. ... "

(I disagree that the "not exception but merely defense" distinction-without-a-difference which the writer of the Wikipedia article made.)

Ashleestewart18, were you 15 when you had sex and got pregnant?
Yes I was 15 when I got pregbant I still am 15 in pregnant

ScottGem
Jun 2, 2013, 03:17 AM
yes i was 15 when i got pregbant i still am 15 in pregnant

Were you 15 when you started having sex with your boyfriend?