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Love Prince
May 27, 2013, 01:47 AM
My age is only 15 and my girlfriend is also 15 we are together in school and are in a relationship now her father has came to know about my and her relationship and is against it now what should I do?

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tickle
May 27, 2013, 01:57 AM
You and she should respect his wishes seeing as you are both underage.

Love Prince
May 27, 2013, 02:44 AM
I had a breakup with my girlfrnd bcos of my 2 friends who are jeleous of me I came to know that my friends want me to take revenge from me due to some old reasones now what should I do about them and hoy can I patch up with that girl again?

I also want to take revenge with my friends...


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joypulv
May 27, 2013, 02:51 AM
Your question doesn't really make enough sense to figure out what happened.
Can you describe it more?

I almost don't want to hear it. All these people wanting revenge sounds teenage and childish.
Revenge is for the person who murdered your family, not a bunch of petty differences about relationships.

Cat1864
May 27, 2013, 06:31 AM
It seems to me that you have a lot going wrong in this relationship.

Ignore the 'friends' and stay away from them. They aren't friends if they want revenge or you want to take revenge on them.

Obey the father. Neither of you may like her father's rules, but they are the rules she lives under. Going behind her father's back could end up in her losing any privileges she currently has plus the trust of her father.

You can try being a mature young man and asking him for permission to date his daughter. If he says 'no', then you break up and go about your separate lives. If he says 'yes', you do your best to respect him and his daughter. That means you do everything you can to make certain his trust is not misplaced.

ScottGem
May 27, 2013, 07:07 AM
OK what is the real story here? In one thread you say her father is against your relationship. In the other 2 "friends" broke you up. So if you are broken up what does her father matter?

If the father is against it, it is probably because you were sneaking around behind his back. If you had been upfront and honest about your relationship he might not be against it.

As for your "friends", they are not friends if they broke up your relationship or want revenge. Revenge is petty and immature.

Finally, this site prohibits the use of text abbreviations. We type in full words and sentences here. We also try to make sure what we post can be understood.

Fr_Chuck
May 27, 2013, 07:40 AM
Children and fools, try to 'take revenge" a mature person learns from expericne and behvers properly,

Wanting to do this, shows you are not ready for a relationship anyway. Next, you don't do things in secret, if you can not be open and honest about a relationship, no need to have one