View Full Version : Am I a virgin if I was raped?
Widdles
May 25, 2013, 05:16 PM
I am a male, and when I was ten I was sodomized by another male. Am I still a virgin?
joypulv
May 25, 2013, 05:29 PM
There are countless ways to define virginity, and with rape just being an assault rather than sexual intimacy, I would say you are a virgin. Is that how you see it? How you feel is most important.
teacherjenn4
May 25, 2013, 06:07 PM
I feel virginity is a choice you make. Since you didn't have a choice in the rape, you should still be considered a virgin.
Fr_Chuck
May 26, 2013, 02:47 AM
My view point, is that you have not had sex with a women, and would be a virgin,
But honestly, there is a double standard, no one really asks or cares of the man is a virgin, most are concerned about the women.
ScottGem
May 26, 2013, 06:21 AM
I have to ask why this concerns you? Virginity is very different for a male than a female. A female can have physical indications of virginity a male doesn't.
So if you want to consider yourself still a virgin since the sex was involuntary, you are free to do so.