respinos
May 17, 2013, 11:14 AM
I had an affair with my nieces ex boyfriend. He is 44, with 3 adult kids, and I'm married and 43. It lasted for 2 months. The man, is separated, he lives in his own house and his wife lives in her own house. The affair ended on April 24, 2013 because my other niece approached him and asked him if we were having an affair.
The next day he texted me and said he needed to talk to me, I called him and we talked. He told me what happened and said that people are catching on. So now he wants to only be friends and nothing else.
I haven't been really close to my husband because he was distant since he was diagnosed with MS. The other man, I dreamed of having sex with for quite some time and I told him. I've been crying and texting the other man for sex, not a relationship. But he just wants to be friends. He said he thinks about us sexually but he thinks about what happened. Since then I try and make excuses up to see him. But he's distant from me. It seems he doesn't want to see or talk to me only by phone, which is texting.
What's wrong with him? And me?
The next day he texted me and said he needed to talk to me, I called him and we talked. He told me what happened and said that people are catching on. So now he wants to only be friends and nothing else.
I haven't been really close to my husband because he was distant since he was diagnosed with MS. The other man, I dreamed of having sex with for quite some time and I told him. I've been crying and texting the other man for sex, not a relationship. But he just wants to be friends. He said he thinks about us sexually but he thinks about what happened. Since then I try and make excuses up to see him. But he's distant from me. It seems he doesn't want to see or talk to me only by phone, which is texting.
What's wrong with him? And me?