Hello my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex may 6 and he came inside of me I started to get cramps 3to4 days later along with gas... 2 days later I get this white milky discharge in my underwear and also lower back pains. I took a hpt Monday but came back negative

Do you know how pregnancy works? It's apparent, from your post, that you don't. I would suggest reading up on pregnancy, how it happens, what happens, when it happens, etc.

Three to four days after sex you wouldn't even be pregnant. Any changes or symptoms at that time, would not be due to pregnancy. Testing 10 days after sex will not give an accurate result.

It's simply mind boggling how many people post here and they don't even have a basic idea how reproduction works. This video is great for explaining how things happen:

Pregnancy - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9CO5Nl_ngCo)

As for pregnancy. You had sex, so it's possible. It's way too early to test though. You'll have to wait until your period is at least 2 weeks late, then test using first morning urine.

Thanks,I have a 4 yr old.. I just really don't remember when I started to feel any early pregnancy symptoms...

Thank you Alty! I also find it mind blowing, and actually pretty annoying.

thanx,i have a 4 yr old..i just really dont remember when I started to feel any early pregnancy symptoms...

But you should remember biology. At 10 days after sex, biologically speaking, you wouldn't even be having pregnancy symptoms. Science is science, and this is basic science. It just blows my mind that so many people have no idea how pregnancy even happens, how it all works. Symptoms three to four days after sex? The sperm hasn't even met the egg, so how would you be having pregnancy symptoms?

This isn't brain surgery, this is basic knowledge, and based on all the posts we get on this site, the majority of people don't have this knowledge at all. It just shows that as a society, we've failed to give even a basic education to the majority of the population on this Earth, and that scares the heck out of me.

Please watch the video. In fact, watch it and send it to all your friends, and ask them to send it to their friends. Maybe that's the only way to educate the world, links to videos on YouTube. Obviously they're not being educated at home or in the classroom. :(

Lol... there is no need of being rude,this website is designed for asking and answering questions. I got my answers's.and I appreciate them,calm down... smh.

lol...there is no need of being rude,this website is designed for asking and answering questions. I got my answers's.and I appreciate them,calm down....smh.

Not being rude at all, being realistic. It's very obvious that the majority of people have no idea how pregnancy works. Read the thousands of threads on this site and see. Heck, read your thread and see, and you already have a child, so you should know!

Obviously people aren't being educated about sex, or pregnancy. If I had a dime for every post where some teen wrote "I had sex, but he pulled out, so I'm not pregnant, right?" I'd be rich.

Sex education is a joke. There is no education about this. There's tons of misinformation though, and it seems to be reproducing at an alarming rate.

You got your answer, that's great, but what about all the other girls that are just as misinformed as you? Don't they deserve to know the truth before they have sex? Because right now, they're going into this with blinders on.

Yea that's great and all,I do "kinda" understand where your coming from,but like I said I was trying to get someone's else thought on it before I decide to buy a pt or take a trip to the dr.. but thanks anyway.

yea thats great and all,i do "kinda" understand where your coming from,but like I said I was jus tryin to get someones else thought on it before I decide to buy a pt or take a trip to the dr..but thanx anyway.

I get that. You only came here to get answers for yourself. You got them.

As someone that's been on this site for many years, and seen thousands of questions like these, I feel it's time to educate, not just one at a time when it's already too late, but before the choice to have sex, without understanding the consequences, or even how basic biology works.

You have a child. What sort of sex education will that child receive? Who will that child learn from? Obviously not you, and you can't count on the school system either. Hopefully that child will learn about sex, and reproduction, before he/she decides to have sex. But how? If no change is made on how people are educated, your child will be even more clueless than you are right now. So why not educate yourself so you can educate your child?

If you're not part of the solution, you're part of the problem.

Good luck.

lol...there is no need of being rude,this website is designed for asking and answering questions. I got my answers's.and I appreciate them,calm down....smh.

UM.. you have 4 posts at this point and you are telling people who have been here YEARS what the site is here for? Obviously you didn't read the rules when you joined much less the terms of service.