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SimplePerson
May 15, 2013, 11:21 PM
A female friend of mine acts sarcastically mean about me when she's with her friends (all girls) ?
When by herself she gets nervous and kind of shy. And on chat she is awesomely friendly to me. Why is this? Please Help me girls, as you can understand it better. She means a lot to me. I don't want to lose her :(

Actually all this started after this incident
I wished her on her birthday messaging on her phone at 12:00. Two month later she asked me on Facebook very angrliy as to why I did'nt wish her on birthday. I was like.. what nonsense... I told her that I messaged her... then here is what she said " really?? i did'nt knew it was you as i did'nt have your number".

She knew that I had her number, because I had asked her and she gave it without any hesitation, but she did'nt ask for mine number.

She is ignoring me now :(

I am a Boy

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SimplePerson
May 17, 2013, 03:58 AM
We know each other since last 2 years
No vulgar answers please !

Cat1864
May 17, 2013, 04:29 AM
Is this the same female friend?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/female-friends-sarcasm-749150.html

SimplePerson
May 17, 2013, 04:33 AM
Is this the same female friend?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/female-friends-sarcasm-749150.html

You... she's the one

Oliver2011
May 17, 2013, 05:46 AM
If you do say that you should be ready for any response. Don't just automatically expect to hear the "I love you too" back.

Cat1864
May 17, 2013, 06:55 AM
Your threads have been merged. Please keep all questions about this person in one thread. It will help us give you more accurate advice. - Thank you.

I think you need to give her time to get over whatever upset her. Let her contact you when she is ready.

Now does not seem to be the time to declare your feelings for her. After she contacts you, you might consider asking her out for lunch or some other low pressure 'date'. See if she is open to getting to know you as more than a friend. In other words, see if she is willing to date you and give a 'romantic' relationship a chance to grow.

SimplePerson
May 18, 2013, 09:26 AM
I am a bit shy boy. I don't flirt much. So can a girl like a boy like me?

talaniman
May 18, 2013, 10:15 AM
Yes. How old are you, and why are you so shy? Is it shyness, or just the quiet type of guy?

SimplePerson
May 18, 2013, 09:19 PM
Yes. How old are you, and why are you so shy? Is it shyness, or just the quiet type of guy?

I am 22. I am quiet and shy to the people I don't' know much, but with my friends and buddies am very outgoing and talkative. I would say am quiet rather than shy.

talaniman
May 19, 2013, 06:20 AM
Take a few steps outside your comfort zone once in a while.