Ace011
Apr 20, 2013, 07:00 PM
Let me start by saying I don't have much experience with dating girls (first girlfriend actually). Okay I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over 4 months. Everything was great for 2 months then when she got a job at Bojangles (she doesn't work everyday). She started communicating "a lot" less.To speed it up she stopped calling me, she didn't call me for a whole month. The 3rd month she stopped wanting to hang out, she never gave me a conclusive answer why. She soon after started on her senior project and stopped calling and texting me all together. I always have to call or text her now (half the time she won't pick up and won't text back till a day later).
I've asked her numerous times does she like me still. She says she still loves me like before but just doesn't have time anymore. I can understand being busy, but she'll go a week without saying one thing to me, not one single word. She told me before that she didn't want to lose me. She said it'll get better but I don't know what to think. I'm confused because she doesn't attempt to talk to me but she can still speak and call/text her friends. I feel like she's lost interest but she claims she hasn't. Its like she's telling me to run to where she's currently standing while she keeps running away. She's contradicting her words and actions.
Does she just not know how to treat her boyfriend (me)? Does this sound like she's playing games or it it possible for her to just be so busy she can't ever find a second for me? I hope I gave a decent amount of info. If more is necessary I will provide it.
I've asked her numerous times does she like me still. She says she still loves me like before but just doesn't have time anymore. I can understand being busy, but she'll go a week without saying one thing to me, not one single word. She told me before that she didn't want to lose me. She said it'll get better but I don't know what to think. I'm confused because she doesn't attempt to talk to me but she can still speak and call/text her friends. I feel like she's lost interest but she claims she hasn't. Its like she's telling me to run to where she's currently standing while she keeps running away. She's contradicting her words and actions.
Does she just not know how to treat her boyfriend (me)? Does this sound like she's playing games or it it possible for her to just be so busy she can't ever find a second for me? I hope I gave a decent amount of info. If more is necessary I will provide it.