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jonasjohansen
Apr 17, 2013, 10:57 AM
So we are in 7th grade. There's this silent girl at class, she's almost like a outcast. I never talked to her. So there's this one time that everyone knows that she likes ME. Even I knew it. So there's this time her friend a guy, lets call him Bob, when I was walking home with my best friend, at first I saw her and Bob talking at the bus stop (she and Bob takes the bus home), then Bob suddenly came to me asking that "Would you like to be her Boyfriend?" she was looking surprised, and looked innocent, like her face was "Whats going on?". Because. My friend was there, I said "No. Ew?" Then Bob was surprised he went back to her and she looked normal, but she looked sad. Even after that event I noticed that I always try, to grab her attention. But now I noticed she looks at me less, and I noticed how cute she is. Now I heard that she doesn't like me anymore ? And my other friends like her now. And now. I noticed I loved her? What should I do?

smkanand
Apr 18, 2013, 11:39 AM
And which grade are you now? Well, she must have felt bad. And she thinks you have no interest in her, so she is ignoring you. So go to her say sorry for the past and be friend with her. Shake hands and start a new friendship.

odinn7
Apr 18, 2013, 11:50 AM
You embarrassed her and treated her poorly just because you were with your friend... put yourself in her place. "No, eww"... she probably hates your guts now.

Your only chance would be to talk to her face to face, tell her you like her, and explain that you were a weenie because you were with a friend and were embarrassed to admit that you like a girl... not just her... any girl... and maybe she will understand.

JudyKayTee
Apr 18, 2013, 02:09 PM
Agree with Odinn - first you like her, then you embarrass her, then you like her again - no, change that to love her.

talaniman
Apr 18, 2013, 05:45 PM
I too feel you owe her an apology. Whether she accepts it or not is up to her, but you really should apologize.