girlwithdreams
Apr 14, 2013, 10:53 AM
Okay so I know what your thinking, all guys look at other girls and girls must do the same naturally.. And yeah fair play I understand that, but here's the thing, I've been with my partner 3 years, were both 18 some may say still young. So I had to have an operation and my face was really swollen I'm really sore and boyfriend comes round. Yay. Let me add another thing. He is out with the boys every day and every might I never get an invite and he's always at parties and I never get invited either.. he's changed so much :(
Anyway. So we were cuddling and stuff and he randomly turns to me and says do you look at other guys and find them attractive cause I find some girls so damn hot. This slightly hurt... Okay it killed, but I thought no amber its natural but I just really didn't need too hear it :(( Especially in that state.
So then the next day we spoke and he said I took it the wrong way. Sorry but how can you really take that in the right way? Then I said jokingly.. God you'll be wanting a 3some next.. Stupid thing to say really :( cause he said I wouldn't say no to it, you and one of these other birds.
I know guys dream of it, but seriously keep it for a rainy day. My confidence was torn apart yesterday let alone now.
Basically.. Am I over reacting? Please just don't give hate :(
Anyway. So we were cuddling and stuff and he randomly turns to me and says do you look at other guys and find them attractive cause I find some girls so damn hot. This slightly hurt... Okay it killed, but I thought no amber its natural but I just really didn't need too hear it :(( Especially in that state.
So then the next day we spoke and he said I took it the wrong way. Sorry but how can you really take that in the right way? Then I said jokingly.. God you'll be wanting a 3some next.. Stupid thing to say really :( cause he said I wouldn't say no to it, you and one of these other birds.
I know guys dream of it, but seriously keep it for a rainy day. My confidence was torn apart yesterday let alone now.
Basically.. Am I over reacting? Please just don't give hate :(