I've been with my girlfriend for 1 year and 4 months it's been an amazing time. I'm 23 she's same age and I love her very much. It all started a week ago when she went out with a girlfriend of hers. They went out she got drunk an ended up staying at her house for the night. I didn't like this because the girl is lesbian and I know she likes my girlfriend. So that day I was worried where she was and she didn't text me or call me. She ended up sleeping because she was wasted. I was very upset that she didn't tell me what happened and stuff. So we argued and told her I don't like that friend. And it got to the point where I told her to chose between me and her. And she couldn't because she says she loves me but likes to hang out with that girl to.

Well story short Friday she said she was unsure that she wanted to be with me. She said she doesn't want to be with other guys or do stuff just wants to be single and have fun. But she doesn't want to let me go. She wants to keep trying. But my problem is she said that she doesn't know about our future if she sees us together for the rest of our lives. Right now she loves me so she says but doesn't know about our future. And it's bugging me really bad what should I do?

Is it okay that she's unsure about our future because she says we are young and you never know what could happen. Please help me I'm so confused! BTW we didn't talk for one day so she could see if she missed me or not. And she said she wants to be with me and that she's going to hang out with that girl less.

So say OK, and start dating other girls,First you don't give demands, and this is most likely not the first time she went out and got drunk, if you date someone who gets drunk, this is what you need to expect.

Also you have no right to demand to know what happen, most likely she sleep, since she was drunk,

1. You tell her to chose between you and a female friend.
2. You ask us ' Is it okay that she's unsure about our future.'

These are both bad signs that you are a control freak. Time to totally rethink yourself and what relationships are all about, once they get past that first year of romance and total dedication. If you can't understand that people belong to themselves and not anyone else, then you are doomed to go through this over and over for the rest of your life.
No one can guarantee that someone will stay, but freedom gives a much higher chance.
Tell her so! Maybe it's not too late. But you have to spend all day, every day, practicing freedom, or words mean nothing.

1. You tell her to chose between you and a female friend.
2. You ask us ' Is it okay that she's unsure about our future.'

These are both bad signs that you are a control freak. Time to totally rethink yourself and what relationships are all about, once they get past that first year of romance and total dedication. If you can't understand that people belong to themselves and not anyone else, then you are doomed to go through this over and over for the rest of your life.
No one can guarantee that someone will stay, but freedom gives a much higher chance.
Tell her so! Maybe it's not too late. But you have to spend all day, every day, practicing freedom, or words mean nothing.

Thank you so much! Your right all this time it's been me with and issue not her. Thank u so much I'm going to change and tell her I'm sorry and like u said practice freedom everyday until I learn thank u. I don't want to lose her and hopefully it's not to late thanks!!

"I told her to chose between me and her." - That is never a good move. When you say something like that you have to be ready for the answer that you don't want, which is exactly what you got.

Your girlfriend is allowed to have fun with other people with you not involved. In fact that is very healthy so you should trust her and encourage her to do so.

You have made a big deal from absolutely NOTHING. Get hold of yourself, or get dumped and you would deserve it.

At least let your drunk GF sleep it off.