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foxrider7
Mar 19, 2013, 08:57 PM
So there;s this guy I been hanging out with for about a month in a half. I knew him for a while but just started hanging around him. Hes 22 and I'm going to be 18 in about a month. Lately he has seemed to be very interested, I may be reading in to things but I don't know. When we hang out he's always rubbing my thigh, holding my hand, asking for hugs and trying to be close.
Recently we went to a bonfire and introduced me to his friends and said get to know her cause she will be around a lot more. I thought it was weird to hear him say that.
Later that night he stayed at my house, we slept in the same bed but NOTHING happened lol
He didn't even try to do anything. He knows my family pretty well. If I talk about my ex, he gets very jealous and won't talk, he just gets quiet. Before I would always have to start the conversations but lately, he's always texting me and making an effort to see me.. Could he possibly like me ?

joypulv
Mar 19, 2013, 09:03 PM
No, not one shred of evidence that he could possibly like you.

Good grief, I know you are only 17, but wake up! Of course he likes you, from what you say here. But you are still a minor until the day you turn 18, and he is an adult. Do you realize what that means, if any adult wanted to charge him with statutory rape?

And stop talking about your ex, if you like him.

foxrider7
Mar 19, 2013, 09:08 PM
Well I'm use to being led on by guys just so they can have sex so I'm afraid to believe he may actually like me. & I may be an adult in a month but doesn't mean we are going to have sex before that. & well he would ask about it just he was acting like he cared about it ?

joypulv
Mar 19, 2013, 10:50 PM
Two people TALK and get to know each other before they have sex. Just because you are a girl doesn't mean you just sit there waiting and wondering what guys want. You have thoughts, feelings, wishes, likes, dislikes, just like they do. So if you like someone, you let it out in little ways, and you ask little questions, and you tell little things about who you are and what you want out of life and him in particular, and after that develops, then, when you feel like he cares more than just getting in your pants, then you have sex. You can't just blurt out 'do you care' as you already know. But I don't think you know HOW to find out. That takes time. Time, time, more time, getting to know him, sharing your thoughts.

aliseaodo
Mar 20, 2013, 10:31 AM
Is it this guy again?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating/does-he-like-me-what-633352.html