xtreme3xo
Mar 7, 2013, 04:41 PM
In September 2012 Me and my girlfriend of 3 and a half years went on holiday and we had sex, 6 months later me and my girlfriend have not had sex since. During this time she has shunned all my attempts of being close with her.
I truly love my girlfriend and find her the most amazing person in the world and I treat her as well as I can everyday and I don't ever feel get this in return but I put up with this because I love her.
We both go to Uni and she has 3 jobs now that means I rarely see her as much as I used to and she is always busy and doesn't always have time for me.
Recently though I have been asking is this relationship what she wants and she says "Yes" she wouldn't be in it if she didn't want to be, the sad thing is she hasn't said she loves me since Christmas Day and more and more I feel as though I'm going through a losing battle.
I mean I just don't understand what I'm doing wrong like most men I try hard on what I wear and maybe I could go the gym but I'm not big or anything like that I just feel rejected as a person as though I'm not good enough for her any more.
I keep bringing this up but she keeps saying I'm making a mountain out of a mole hill and I keep saying this stuff to her because she thinks I want her to break up with me.
Truth is I love her and I don't want to break up with her I've been as romantic as I can be I mean I buy her roses spontaneously and will always show her love and affection and will back off when she needs space but in reality all it feels like in our relationship is that is all it is "Space".
I love her to pieces but how can I say I want to spend the rest of my life with a person who can't say they love me. If I break up with her it feels as though 4 years of my life has been wasted on a pipe dream of pure bliss.
I just need someone to tell me that this is going to work itself out because I genuinely don't think we will ever be the same.
I truly love my girlfriend and find her the most amazing person in the world and I treat her as well as I can everyday and I don't ever feel get this in return but I put up with this because I love her.
We both go to Uni and she has 3 jobs now that means I rarely see her as much as I used to and she is always busy and doesn't always have time for me.
Recently though I have been asking is this relationship what she wants and she says "Yes" she wouldn't be in it if she didn't want to be, the sad thing is she hasn't said she loves me since Christmas Day and more and more I feel as though I'm going through a losing battle.
I mean I just don't understand what I'm doing wrong like most men I try hard on what I wear and maybe I could go the gym but I'm not big or anything like that I just feel rejected as a person as though I'm not good enough for her any more.
I keep bringing this up but she keeps saying I'm making a mountain out of a mole hill and I keep saying this stuff to her because she thinks I want her to break up with me.
Truth is I love her and I don't want to break up with her I've been as romantic as I can be I mean I buy her roses spontaneously and will always show her love and affection and will back off when she needs space but in reality all it feels like in our relationship is that is all it is "Space".
I love her to pieces but how can I say I want to spend the rest of my life with a person who can't say they love me. If I break up with her it feels as though 4 years of my life has been wasted on a pipe dream of pure bliss.
I just need someone to tell me that this is going to work itself out because I genuinely don't think we will ever be the same.