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playbunny_1995
Mar 5, 2013, 08:05 PM
How much is an hr for a motel
How much is an hr for a motel
How much is WHAT for a hotel? Hr? Whore? Hour? Please use complete words and sentences as the site requires.
playbunny_1995
Mar 5, 2013, 08:26 PM
How much is WHAT for a hotel? Hr? Whore? Hour? Please use complete words and sentences as the site requires.
My question was how much is an motel for 1 hour ? -,-
Decent motels don't charge by the hour. Now if you want semen and vaginal discharge on the sheets, and you want the jungle room, well then about $25. But make sure to have all your shots first.
playbunny_1995
Mar 5, 2013, 08:32 PM
Decent motels don't charge by the hour. Now if you want semen and vaginal discharge on the sheets, and you want the jungle room, well then about $25. But make sure to have all your shots first.
Lol um OK
Let me guess. You are 17 and you want to have sex, but neither you or the boy you want to have sex with can have sex at home, so you have to get a motel. BUT, you can't afford a decent motel, so you are opting for a roach motel?
Am I close?
smoothy
Mar 5, 2013, 08:34 PM
Some backwater places you might even get it for a half hour at a time. Again if you don't mind bedbugs... scabies and other nasties.
They charge extra for underage kids... the risk is greater with them.
And to think, Smoothy, we are going to have to pay for their love child! Sheesh.
smoothy
Mar 5, 2013, 08:37 PM
She might get a discount if she takes care of the guy in the office first..
playbunny_1995
Mar 5, 2013, 08:37 PM
Let me guess. You are 17 and you want to have sex, but neither you or the boy you want to have sex with can have sex at home, so you have to get a motel. BUT, you can't afford a decent motel, so you are opting for a roach motel?
Am I close?
I'm turning 18 :) and I wanted to know for my prom day and no I'm not going to sleep in a roach place :) thank you very much
smoothy
Mar 5, 2013, 08:38 PM
I'm turning 18 :) and I wanted to know for my prom day and no I'm not going to sleep in a roach place :) thank you very much
ANY hotel you can possibly get per hr... by definition IS a roach motel. Hookers and junkies use those rooms... and if you get lucky.. they washed the sheets last year.
playbunny_1995
Mar 5, 2013, 08:38 PM
She might get a discount if she takes care of the guy in the office first..
0,o
Doesn't matter if you are turning 18 or 28. If you aren't financially prepared to have a child you shouldn't have sex.
smoothy
Mar 5, 2013, 08:40 PM
Seriously... those places are FILTHY... you might get lice or who knows what. Those are the kind of places a homeless people might crash for a shower when they get extra money.
playbunny_1995
Mar 5, 2013, 08:42 PM
Doesn't matter if you are turning 18 or 28. If you aren't financially prepared to have a child you shouldn't have sex. they made condoms <--
If you get extra lucky you won't get raped or robbed by the freaks in the alley.
Look, you are 17. I don't care if you are "turning 18," you aren't 18 yet.
If you want a decent motel, ask your parents for a reference. See if they will pay for half of the room and the boy's parents will pay for the other half.
Make sure you don't have sex with anyone else within a 2 months span of time just you you will be sure to know who the baby daddy is when that time comes.
playbunny_1995
Mar 5, 2013, 08:43 PM
Seriously....those places are FILTHY.....you might get lice or who knows what.
And oh OK I was planing to get a descend motel I was just wondering how much was it
smoothy
Mar 5, 2013, 08:44 PM
they made condoms <--
How effective do you think condoms are on average when fresh and used correctly? Only 80% at best...
You are aware you can be on the pill AND use condoms and still get pregnant?
playbunny_1995
Mar 5, 2013, 08:44 PM
If you get extra lucky you won't get raped or robbed by the freaks in the alley.
Look, you are 17. I don't care if you are "turning 18," you aren't 18 yet.
If you want a decent motel, ask your parents for a reference. See if they will pay for half of the room and the boy's parents will pay for the other half.
Make sure you don't have sex with anyone else within a 2 months span of time just you you will be sure to know who the baby daddy is when that time comes.
My parent will kill me if they know and OK
they made condoms <--
Really? That's news to me. Oh, and to my two oldest sons! I was MARRIED and on the pill AND USED CONDOMS and got pregnant not once, but twice. One boy is 27 and the other is about to turn 25.
Would you like me to tell you about the chemo I went through? It made me completely, absolutely, and irrevocably sterile. That was 13 years ago. My youngest son just turned 11.
So... Tell me about those condoms again?
playbunny_1995
Mar 5, 2013, 08:45 PM
How effective do you think condoms are on average when fresh and used correctly? Only 80% at best....
You are aware you can be on the pill AND use condoms and still get pregnant?
Yes
smoothy
Mar 5, 2013, 08:48 PM
Yes
And J_9 isn't the only prominent person on this site that has happened to... so figure having more than 3 people that had kids exactly in that manner... you know personally very well... I can say that.
If you want something that will kill every dream you have had for your life... get pregnant. Everything YOU want stops mattering... when you have a hungry little mouth to feed.
And also consider few guys your age are going to want anything to do with a single mom... except sleeping with her.
You will be lucky to find a guy mature enough to see someone else's kid as something other than baggage before you are in your 30's. And the pool of single women without kids dries up.
I'm telling you this as a guy... and hopefully you listen because it only takes a moment and your life will never, ever be the same... and odds are... this boy won't be around.
I've known too many this exact thing has happened to.
playbunny_1995
Mar 5, 2013, 08:51 PM
And J_9 isnt' the only prominent person on this site that has happened to.....so figure having more than 3 people that had kids exactly in that manner....you know personally very well....I can say that.
If you want something that will kill every dream you have had for your life......get pregnant. Everything YOU want stops mattering....when you have a hungry little mouth to feed.
But I never said I want to get pregnant me and him now we not ready
smoothy
Mar 5, 2013, 08:56 PM
But I never said I want to get pregnant me and him now we not ready
#1. You want a hotel room..
#2. You plan to have sex in the hotel room
#3. It doesn't matter what you want or plan for... it just happens that easy. Having sex leads to having a baby. Usually when you least want it.
Because if you AREN'T ready for a baby... then you don't have sex... because it happens very frequently.
It happened to over 12 girls in my High School class before graduation... and I was in a small school, a very small school. None of them planned on it either.
But I never said I want to get pregnant me and him now we not ready
Honey, I didn't want to get pregnant either. But I did. Two times I used two forms of protection. Once I didn't use any (she's my only daughter) and the 4th time I was told it was IMPOSSIBLE for me to get pregnant.
So, if you aren't ready to be a parent, if your parents would "kill you," then why have sex? It's really not all it's cracked up to be until you are with someone long term, in a marriage, who will stick with you for the long haul.
I also want to say that I was married when I had my first two, using the pill and the condom. I was his first. He couldn't handle having only one woman, so he cheated. We are divorced and the children suffered.
Now, you are 17, turning 18 (whatever that means). Are you ready to be a single mother? Is the show Teen Moms fascinating to you?
playbunny_1995
Mar 5, 2013, 10:35 PM
Honey, I didn't want to get pregnant either. But I did. Two times I used two forms of protection. Once I didn't use any (she's my only daughter) and the 4th time I was told it was IMPOSSIBLE for me to get pregnant.
So, if you aren't ready to be a parent, if your parents would "kill you," then why have sex? It's really not all it's cracked up to be until you are with someone long term, in a marriage, who will stick with you for the long haul.
I also want to say that I was married when I had my first two, using the pill and the condom. I was his first. He couldn't handle having only one woman, so he cheated. We are divorced and the children suffered.
Now, you are 17, turning 18 (whatever that means). Are you ready to be a single mother? Is the show Teen Moms fascinating to you?
Damn um no comments and no I'm not ready to get pregnant and no that show don't fascinate me
So what should I do to control myself and my boyfriend he is out of control
I'm willing to talk with you woman to woman about how all of this works and how birth control isn't 100% effective. BUT you have to be willing to listen to me as a professional.
I told you my story above, but I also want you to know what I do as a profession. I deliver babies. 4 nights a week, 12 hours a night.
If you have any questions, I am more than happy to help answer them in a reasonable way.
Wondergirl
Mar 5, 2013, 10:39 PM
So what should I do to control my self and my bf he is out of control
Say no and don't put yourself into a private place alone with him.
playbunny_1995
Mar 5, 2013, 10:43 PM
I'm willing to talk with you woman to woman about how all of this works and how birth control isn't 100% effective. BUT you have to be willing to listen to me as a professional.
I told you my story above, but I also want you to know what I do as a profession. I deliver babies. 4 nights a week, 12 hours a night.
If you have any questions, I am more than happy to help answer them in a reasonable way. I never heard about that job
If you are not ready to be a single mother, and you will, you tell him point blank to get control of himself or he needs to take a hike.
You need to have more self respect for yourself. Don't let a boy talk you into anything you aren't ready for. You aren't ready to be a mother.
Take PRIDE in your virginity! Be proud that you aren't going to be 18 and raising a baby and have no future other than living off welfare. Get an education. Be prepared for motherhood rather than being surprised by it.
playbunny_1995
Mar 5, 2013, 10:44 PM
Say no and don't put yourself into a private place alone with him. I do that a lot and he hates it but deals with it but sometime I get in my you know times and just have to doit
I do that a lot and he hates it but deals with it but sometime I get in my you know times and just have to doit
Huh?
We aren't teens. We don't text. The site requires complete words and sentences.
In order for me to help you properly, you will have to help me properly.
playbunny_1995
Mar 5, 2013, 10:48 PM
And OK I'll keep doing what I do tell him no
Can I share something with you?
playbunny_1995
Mar 5, 2013, 10:50 PM
] I said I get horny you know...
Can I share something with you?
Yes sure
Woman to woman and I won't cut you down for your choices, but I want you to listen carefully. This is a true story. Okay?
My daughter Rae is 19. She is just finishing her first year in college for Social Work.
Last year about this time of the year (Prom) she came to me (she had a boyfriend, we'll call him Frank), and said that she was worried because Frank was being a little too forward when it came to sexual advances. I told her what we are all telling you here. I understand what being "horny" is all about. Sure I might be ancient to you, but I've been there, done that and got the tee shirt.
Well, long story short, Frank got a hotel room. Rae was scared. Thank GOD she had the brains to come to me and talk to me. It ended up that she went to prom with 3 of her girlfriends and 2 boys. She is still a virgin and proud of it. Frank, on the other hand, has had a baby and 2 on the way with 2 different teen girls. That makes 3 babies and 3 mothers. Too much drama. Frank also has a restraining order on my daughter as he refuses to leave her alone.
Is this what you want? While it may seem far fetched, it's always possible.
All I ask is that you make wise choices. Consider the consequences to every action that you make. What may seem like a good idea now, could lead you down to a very volatile path.
I would like to add that that first time is not going to be pleasurable. It's going to hurt like he!! unless you are drunk, but that's a different subject all together.
Honey, sex is supposed to be saved for someone you want to share your life with. AFTER marriage. Why do you think there are all of these "baby mama drama" threads all over this site?
I just want you to remember that the decisions you make today create the consequences of tomorrow.
Are you ready to have sex at prom in what May? Are you prepared to be a mother in February? Yes, you can get pregnant the first time you have sex no matter what kind of birth control you use, and the "pull out method" is not a form of birth control. Just don't expect the first time to be fun. It WILL hurt.
Alty
Mar 5, 2013, 11:10 PM
You've gotten some great advice on this thread, I would suggest you follow it. If you're horny, masturbate. Masturbating doesn't lead to pregnancy, sex does, no matter how careful you are.
If your boyfriend won't stop bugging you about it, then dump him. Obviously he cares more about sex than he does about you.
Be smart. The decision to have sex can be life changing, and usually not in a good way. Wait until you're ready to have a child.
I've said all I can say. I just hope she doesn't end up in my labor bed in February.
Alty
Mar 5, 2013, 11:15 PM
I've said all I can say. I just hope she doesn't end up in my labor bed in February.
Or with one of the numerous diseases she could get not only from sex, but from a hotel that charges by the hour. She'll be lucky if she survives to make it to your labor bed in February.
But if she DOES make it to that bed, I would have to treat her for one of the many STDs she could get in the jungle room.
Makes one think about the lyrics of the infamous Guns 'N' Roses song "Welcome to the Jungle!"
Wondergirl
Mar 5, 2013, 11:37 PM
But if she DOES make it to that bed, I would have to treat her for one of the many STDs she could get in the jungle room.
Our library homeless guy Jerry would stay in a roach motel once a month or so to get a good night's sleep lying flat (otherwise he slept sitting up somewhere) and to get a long hot shower, but he refused to get into the bed between the sheets and would sleep with his clothes on.
ScottGem
Mar 6, 2013, 04:31 AM
But I never said I want to get pregnant me and him now we not ready
No one should engage in sexual intercourse unless they are prepared to have a child.
talaniman
Mar 6, 2013, 08:20 AM
What a memory to have of your Prom, getting knocked up by a horny guy in a roach motel that YOU had to pay for. Explain that to the future guy you fall in love with. What this guy and you will love forever?
Guess again, its only LUST, on your part, but more so on his. But you can carry a child, and he will be off satisfying his lust with another young horny girl, who thinks he is so in love with her.
Get smart and make some good memories and avoid the nightmare that many young girls like yourself put themselves through for a horny guy who doesn't give a rats patoot for you other than getting his rocks off, and maybe yours.
Guys love virgins because being the first to pop that thang is a badge of honor, and ego. Saying NO, and waiting is your ONLY defense against horny guys.
If you do say NO, are you afraid he will NOT take you to the Prom?
smoothy
Mar 6, 2013, 08:23 AM
Exactly... guys that age will gravitate to any female that lets them have sex with her... they don't want a relationship... they want sex... everything is about getting to have sex... they will say or do almost anything to convince the girl to give it up... right up to and including pressuring her into it... many times that pressure crosses the line and becomes rape by legal definition.
And the most shocking thing many learn... a guy doesn't even really have to like her all that much to have sex with her... something they can usually figure out based on how they were treated before... that they rarely see at the moment. And that is the primary reason so many teen fathers don't stick around after the baby is born.
Guys and gals... do not think the same way about many things... this being the #1 area of the biggest difference.
Most rapes are committed by people the woman knows...
http://www.crisisconnectioninc.org/sexualassault/rapestatistics.htm
playbunny_1995
Mar 6, 2013, 11:25 AM
Oh damn :/ I'm scare about the birth control I thought it was safe like not to get pregnant 0,0
Damn yeah I'm going to
smoothy
Mar 6, 2013, 11:36 AM
If you go and do it and get knocked up and he leaves you.. you forfeit any right to complain about it... forever..
playbunny_1995
Mar 6, 2013, 11:52 AM
I want him to take me to prom I got nobody else
smoothy
Mar 6, 2013, 12:11 PM
I want him to take me to prom I got nobody else
That prom is a joke... most people laugh about how teenagers think its something so important... and that's people in their 20's doing the laughing. Its about as inportant as the gift you get as a 2 year old from a distant relative...
Meaning... in the grand scheme of life... the prom is a huge waste of money...
But you can go to the prom... and NOT go to a hotel or anyplace else to have sex... if the prom is what is really important to you. And guys want to get girls drunk so they can have sex... no other reason. Drunk girls put up little or no resistance...
I'm a guy... I know what guys your age think... I've been that age.. I remember that age like it was yesterday... I have VERY vivd memories of it... including smells.
I have matured beyond that... and I'm passing that on for your benefit.. before you become one of those single moms living in a falling down trailer working for minimum wage wondering how you are going to pay your next bill.
playbunny_1995
Mar 6, 2013, 12:19 PM
Oh damn I got nothing to say just thank you for you opinion
smoothy
Mar 6, 2013, 12:28 PM
I understand what women want and what they think... You are after the love and closeness... and want a relationship... a guy your age isn't after that... he wants the sex and will sleep with almost anyone who gives it to them. He will tell amost any story or lie to get it. Ever notice decent looking guys with ugly women with no personality? That's why.
You lack the life experience to see through his act... and see what he's really doing. But you will learn... hopefully before something bad happens. Lots of date rape happens during prom.
You will discover almost everything that happens during high school that seems so important to you now means nothing by a few years after you graduate.
Alty
Mar 6, 2013, 03:22 PM
Playbunny, you've gotten great advice, and sometimes we've been a bit harsh, and you're still listening. That tells me something about you. It tells me that you're not some stupid teen, you actually listen to people that have been where you are now, and that's a very good thing. You're too smart to fall for this.
Let me tell you a bit about myself. As a teen, I did sleep around. It's a long story, but bottom line is that I didn't really care about myself that much. I knew that the guys I slept with didn't love me, and I didn't care. I didn't care about getting pregnant, or getting an STD. I got really lucky, I woke up, realized what I was doing and that I am worth more than I thought, and I didn't get pregnant, or get an STD (okay, I did, but it was easily cleared up with a prescription). I dodged so many bullets.
I have friends that got pregnant the first time they had sex. I have two friends with Aids, one still fighting to survive, the other died around 10 years ago. I personally know one lady that has PCOD (polysistic ovarian disease), one ovary, was on the pill, used a condom, was told by a doctor that she'd never conceive, and she has 3 kids.
The only way to avoid pregnancy 100% is to not have sex. The only way to avoid getting an STD is to not have sex.
Do you really want your first sexual experience to be in a fleabag motel that charges by the hour (that's where hookers go, because they only need an hour, not a whole night)? You don't even have to have sex to catch something in one of those places.
Don't you want your first time to be special, with someone you know for a fact, really loves you? Why not test this guys love. Tell him you don't want to have sex until marriage, and see if he sticks around. If he does, then you may actually have a keeper. But I'd bet money that as soon as you say no and cross your legs, he'll move on to someone that will say yes.
You are in charge of your life. Don't do something just because you're afraid to say no. You'll end up regretting it, maybe in more ways than one.