MNNEPAL27
Mar 19, 2007, 02:06 PM
Okay so you are probably wondering why I am even asking this, but truly what are the real reasons people divorce? I can see substantial resasons such as a mate, verbally, sexually, mentally, physically abusing you. Or even constant drug, or alcohol usage and someone who isn't willing to change?
I have had many friends over time who married young or married quickly and then later got divorced. Sometimes it's a logical reason and sometimes it's over something stupid. There are so many divorces out there today, but is the real cause of them?
I am newly married 8 months to be exact. I saw my parents through divorce twice for my dad. IT was a heartbreaker. I had the fear of marriage and taking the risk was my thing to do. I had to get over the common statement that the public always states " If your parents marriage fails, you have a good chance that yours will fail as well"!
Hello! I say NOT! I vowed to myself and told my husband before we got married that if you are going to marry me you are going to be committed. There are only a few reason why I would ever leave or allow you to leave. I am a committed person if you do not want to invest in this relationship, you better go now.
I was serious, I meant business, and I didn't want fool around. Our relationship is strong. I know what he does, doesn't do, and vise versa. WE have our jokes. I do not have any insecurities with him because he accepts me for who I am and what I am. He told me that he will be with me for a lifetime and to never forget it. We have our problems, but it's about working it out, communication and acceptance and understanding. Not to mention honestly, and truth.
After a year is going to go down hill. I believe not. WE believe not. We have talked about this many times. I believe anything can work if you truly make it work and it's just not about one person doing all the work, it's about team work and tackling it together.
DIvorce honetley it doesn't have to happen. Communication is the key to all successful realtionships along with love.
I just wanted to put my opinion and thoughts out there. I know sometimes things feel hopeless, but I believe marriage does work, if both of you put your heart and soul into it. :o
I have had many friends over time who married young or married quickly and then later got divorced. Sometimes it's a logical reason and sometimes it's over something stupid. There are so many divorces out there today, but is the real cause of them?
I am newly married 8 months to be exact. I saw my parents through divorce twice for my dad. IT was a heartbreaker. I had the fear of marriage and taking the risk was my thing to do. I had to get over the common statement that the public always states " If your parents marriage fails, you have a good chance that yours will fail as well"!
Hello! I say NOT! I vowed to myself and told my husband before we got married that if you are going to marry me you are going to be committed. There are only a few reason why I would ever leave or allow you to leave. I am a committed person if you do not want to invest in this relationship, you better go now.
I was serious, I meant business, and I didn't want fool around. Our relationship is strong. I know what he does, doesn't do, and vise versa. WE have our jokes. I do not have any insecurities with him because he accepts me for who I am and what I am. He told me that he will be with me for a lifetime and to never forget it. We have our problems, but it's about working it out, communication and acceptance and understanding. Not to mention honestly, and truth.
After a year is going to go down hill. I believe not. WE believe not. We have talked about this many times. I believe anything can work if you truly make it work and it's just not about one person doing all the work, it's about team work and tackling it together.
DIvorce honetley it doesn't have to happen. Communication is the key to all successful realtionships along with love.
I just wanted to put my opinion and thoughts out there. I know sometimes things feel hopeless, but I believe marriage does work, if both of you put your heart and soul into it. :o