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christene
Feb 13, 2013, 05:39 AM
Not sure if I am still in love

christene
Feb 13, 2013, 05:58 AM
I’m not sure what to do, it feels like I am in this hole & don’t know what to do. I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years & just don’t feel anything for him anymore. When we make love I don’t feel any passion or anything & it has been like this for quite some time. I don’t feel that I love him or want to be with him anymore because everything he does irritates me. I’ve thought numerous times about breaking it off, but can’t go through with it. I know I have many faults, I’m very quick tempered & moody & that can’t be fun to live with either. His a good person in many ways & treats me well, never say something bad about me always takes my side, always tells me he loves me, touches me & kiss me but I don’t think I love this attention. Also he embarrass me at a family party, always fights with my stepbrother & says my brother is jealous on our relationship. Everybody tells me to leave him but if you’ve not been in this situation it is not easy to do. Must I give him another change & see how it goes or what should I do. My dad told me to follow my head & not my heart cause I think I’m just with him because I feel sorry for him & that he sometimes help me financial….

fredg
Feb 13, 2013, 07:02 AM
It's not always easy figuring out what to do in a relationship. I was divorced after 7 yrs of marriage, then re-married for 30 yrs.
Life is hard enough sometimes without making it even harder. I think you should consider leaving. If you are honest, respectful, and willing to talk about everything with someone, you will eventually find someone else.
If you both don't want to talk with a couselor, then maybe it's time to break it off. I do wish you the best, and good luck.

fredg
Feb 13, 2013, 07:04 AM
One of the best ways to figure out if you are still in love, is to take a break. Leave the relationship for a few months. See if it makes any difference in the way you feel. Good luck.

Homegirl 50
Feb 13, 2013, 07:18 AM
Sounds like you need to leave this alone. If you feel this way about a person you don't need to be with him. It's certainly not fair to him