I'm going out with this guy and I really don't know if I like him. It was all fun in the beginning but not anymore. At some point he didn't contact me for about 3 weeks and then suddenly one day he text me saying he went on vacation. You cannot go away for that amount of time without at least telling her where your going and why he wouldn't be reachable. I feel like he's taking advantage of my kindness. We don't talk as much as we used to even before we got together. He said he liked me and still asks why I don't like him back. He has a high sex drive and I just don't feel like I want to actually do it until some time. Sex isn't the top of my list anyway, maybe I just have a low sex drive.

You don't say how long you have been going out with him. If it isn't a committed relationship then why worry that he didn't tell you he was going on vacation for so long?

Do you think he is just using you as a 'friends-with-benefits'? If so, then just forget about and move on. You don't sound like you are that much interested in him anyway.

If this is the same guy, you should have been gone.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/im-not-love-bf-688731.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/im-tired-sex-711894.html

If this is the same guy, you should have been gone.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/im-not-love-bf-688731.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/im-tired-sex-711894.html

No its not the same guy

You cannot go away for that amount of time without at least telling her where your going and why he wouldn't be reachable. I feel like he's taking advantage of my kindness. We don't talk as much as we used to even before we got together.

That would be enough to convince me that a better person is out there. Things fizzle out sometimes.