Last week my boyfriend tells me he is getting deployed so he's going to delete his Facebook. So for the hell of it I tried to look for him from my cousins page and I found his page. Our picture deleted, him back to single, and when I confronted him about it he denied it, even though I sent him all the pictures of what I found. I didn't speak to him all night.

Next day I checked again and there were two pages of him and he had added himself and I sent him that picture and he denied that as well. So end of that week I checked again and he was in a relationship with a girl whose in high school and he is 22. -_- I don't know. I love him but I know he's lying.

Last time I slept over his house he got a call at midnight and he said it was his boss who calls at that time. I loved this guy so much. I've been loyal and faithful to him and I had it and I told him I'm dumping him. I had asked to meet on a specific date so I can do it face to face and that day he didn't reply to my texts or calls and no word from him so I broke up over a text. Next day he texts me saying What the heck and that he had forgotten his phone at his fathers. I know I'm stupid to even listen to all these lies but after two years of a bad relationship I had given a chance to this relationship and now this.

All day he doesn't reply to my texts cause apparently he's in class. Not even when he wakes up like he use to. I don't know what to do anymore. I put in too much in this to let it end like this and whenever I bring up the Facebook he denies it and says to leave him alone and that he will change his number if I blow up his phone.

It broke my heart that he can't find me worth telling truth to. I need all the motivation I can to leave him without the guilt and its harder because he denies it all. :(</

Girl, just leave. What do you mean you need the motivation to leave him without guilt. He is the one lying and cheating.
Don't text or call him anymore. He knows he's done and has moved on. You need to do the same.

Yeah but its been so hard. Ive been crying to sleep.. not intentionally of course. It just hurts so much. Every time we talk lately.. he gets very defensive. And just now he went off saying I'm the one whose thinking up all these things without proof and all he's doing is working and going to school. And says he'll let me know when he has the time to see me. Its been a month since I've seen him. I know its stupid of me to hold on. But I don't know what I did to deserve this .

Brandy ~ You're allowing this jerk to hurt you. Really, there's plenty of guys that would worship your faithfulness. Get looking!

John

This boy is jerking you around and you are letting him. He'll let you know when he has time to see you. Seriously? Get a clue girl. Leave this jerk alone. He's not the only boy in the world. What more does he have to do to get you to see what he is?