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Rayne_Bows
Jan 31, 2013, 01:23 AM
I'm a 18 year old girl who is in need of some advice. My parents are really strict no boys, no sex, etc.. I am afraid of going to one of them or a medical personnel of fear of it somehow getting back to my parentals.

The thing I need advice about is of so:

I always assume that because of mine overweight body that I don't get it regular menstruation cycle. I literally get a period once in around a span off for to five months lasting around four or three days. So I know that pregnancy is still possible but at a slight lower risk. Slight but not by much.

I decided to have unprotected sex while staying at a friend's house. I went to the boy's house which (we've dated in the past secrectively) he lived a few blocks over. It wasn't a plan to have sex just a little "playing" here and there type night. Ended up unprotected sex. This was around two weeks ago, I have been having a very very light bleeding that is not normal on when I do have a period. It's abit spotted on time frame and never have I been super light.

I'm just wanting to know with the not havibg normal periods and having a very light period afterward what is the probability of any pregnancy chances if any. I know it was stupid on my part to have unsafe sex. But I just need advice on what to do next and if the very light unusual period like bleeding normal the week after.

Fr_Chuck
Jan 31, 2013, 05:03 AM
It may be spotting due to having sex ( assume it was your first time? )

But it may be an infection, maybe a STD, maybe pregnancy.
BUT::: maybe just nothing but spotting, it can happen.

So the issue is, it is far to early to do a pregnancy test, so you are going to have to wait.

I would say start with waiting about 4 weeks after the sex and do a pregnancy test with the first urine of the day when you wake up.
If Neg,
Repeat in two weeks.

If still not negative, then most likely you are not pregnant.

Rayne_Bows
Jan 31, 2013, 09:01 AM
it may be spotting due to having sex ( assume it was your first time ??)

but it may be an infection, maybe a STD, maybe pregnancy.
BUT::: maybe just nothing but spotting, it can happen.

So the issue is, it is far to early to do a pregnancy test, so you are going to have to wait.

I would say start with waiting about 4 weeks after the sex and do a pregnancy test with the first urine of the day when you wake up.
if Neg,
repeat in two weeks.

If still not neg, then most likely you are not pregnant.


Wasn't my first, just first unprotected. Would the fact that he was bigger then my first who was safe sex have anything to do with it? Sorry for the questions, just confused on a lot of things.