Before reading, pleasr do not answer that all ex's should be the past because I really love this guy and feel that we could be really happy as a couple.

Here's my history: we dated for about 16 months it was a formal relationship and it was just so easy that felt unique and real love, he was my lover and best friend at the same time and I'm sure I was his boyfriend and lover too.

It was a great relationship.. 3months ago he broke up with me, he gave just excuses.. not a real reason. He even said he knew he would be the one regretting breaking up with me
. So yeah for the first weeks I text him 2 or 3 times saying that I miss him.. a week after the break up I looked for him to have some explanation... lol I know I did all the wrong things... he started partying all weekeds and he acts at college (only place I get to see him) like he never met me... he got kind of mad because his family and friends all supported me and said to him he was crazy by dumping me... well didn't contact him anymore just a few hellos at college (by me) and a happy new year text I sent... went NC again after frriday that I sent him a little gift because he's graduating this semester... he didn't call or text me at all.. my friends (same social network) say that he isn't dating anyone... I got back with my life on January got back to the gym, started seeing a guy.. but I really misa my ex and I know as I said before we can be really happy together... should I keep the NC rule? What else could Ido to get him notice me again? Any male point of view please? Please don't say get over him bbecause I learned thatyou should ffight for your dreams and it was a weird breakup so I'm surr he didn't know why he did it anyway

You can't be happy together if he does not want you. This is what you have to realize. He left you for a reason whether you understand it or not and until that reason for him changes, he is not gong to come back.
You can't make someone want you. Following your dreams is not the same as wanting someone who does not want you.