I was in a 1 yr LDR and my girlf ended it it just over two years ago. Contact between us since has been on off and I have seen her a couple of time since the break up but usually just for a coffee. We have both dated other people since the break up, but I am single right now. We have been emailing a lot over the last few weeks and I am in her city this weekend. She said she wants to 'spend time' with me. To cut a story short we have agreed to go to a spa together for the day. I am not sure what her intentions are or how to react on the day. One of our most enjoyable dates when we were dating was a visit to a spa.