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mlager
Jan 25, 2013, 03:59 PM
Ok how can you tell if a shy boy likes you? Me and him have been texting everyday for over a month. We see each other like twice a week at church.

Also he smiles every time we talk in person and he loves teasing me a lot. Like when I was getting ready to leave and he was like in his truck he got out and come up to my car cause he wanted to talk to me.

Homegirl 50
Jan 25, 2013, 04:06 PM
What do you think all of this attention means?

mlager
Jan 25, 2013, 04:13 PM
What do you think??

Homegirl 50
Jan 25, 2013, 04:43 PM
It appears me may like you. Think about what he's doing.

mlager
Jan 25, 2013, 04:56 PM
What do you mean think about what he's doing?

Alty
Jan 25, 2013, 04:57 PM
He's talking to you, makes a special effort to talk to you at church, teases you, so you, he probably likes you. You don't usually talk to people you don't like.

Does he like you as a friend, or more, that's something only he can tell you.

mlager
Jan 25, 2013, 05:01 PM
Okay thanks:) you helped bunches!:)

Homegirl 50
Jan 25, 2013, 05:10 PM
How old are you?

mlager
Jan 25, 2013, 05:16 PM
18

Wondergirl
Jan 25, 2013, 05:17 PM
Is this the same guy as in your other threads?

mlager
Jan 25, 2013, 05:26 PM
No

Homegirl 50
Jan 25, 2013, 05:29 PM
The other thread is under your name

mlager
Jan 25, 2013, 05:30 PM
What

Homegirl 50
Jan 25, 2013, 05:32 PM
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-health-wellness/shoulder-help-729530.html

Homegirl 50
Jan 28, 2013, 12:58 PM
Is this the same guy that you have posted another thread about? Is this the guy from church or another guy? It could mean he is interested. He could have been asking you to lunch and you basically told him you don't do lunch.

mlager
Jan 28, 2013, 01:01 PM
Yes same guy, and yes he asked me like what if I ever asked you to lunch, and I said I don't know I'm not a big lunch eater, which the truth I don't want lie about it. So I don't know

Homegirl 50
Jan 28, 2013, 01:06 PM
I think this was his way of asking you out and you just shot him down. You said you wanted to go out with him, why didn't you say yes?
And there is no need to post a different question every time about the same person.Talk to him, ask him out.

mlager
Jan 28, 2013, 01:11 PM
Well he said if I ever asked you to lunch, I would only have to bring like 5$ and I was like you probley , but he actually never really asked me, he just said WHAT IF

Homegirl 50
Jan 28, 2013, 01:15 PM
He is saying if he did would you say yes? You should have said yes. Talk to him again.
How old are you two. You would only have to bring $5.00? This sounds like middle school stuff

Homegirl 50
Jan 28, 2013, 01:17 PM
This is a continuation of this question that was deleted.
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/help-730890.html

mlager
Jan 28, 2013, 01:21 PM
Yeah I would say yes, I'm 18 he is 19 and he said he would only have to bring 5$ for me to eat on cause I don't eat much lunch, but how do talk to him again about it?

Homegirl 50
Jan 28, 2013, 01:44 PM
You just talk to him. Ask him if he would go to lunch with you.

talaniman
Jan 28, 2013, 01:45 PM
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/what-does-mean-if-guy-keeps-glancing-you-youth-group-728847.html

Mature young adults would have already cut through the shyness and inexperience, split the 5 bucks and had lunch already. Give him the 5 bucks and say lets go. I mean all you had to do was say yes you would go to lunch with him when he asked.

No more questions about does he like you please, they will be deleted.

His actions and words say he is interested so go to lunch by gosh and quit dancing around it. He may be shy, but you appear afraid. Hmmm, maybe that's the attraction to each other and the problem. You both want the other to take the lead or give clear signs of encouragement.

Take a chance and encourage him by being positive and affirmative, or give him the fiver. How many times does everybody have to TELL you to go for it?

mlager
Jan 28, 2013, 01:49 PM
OK

Wondergirl
Jan 28, 2013, 01:52 PM
Are you male or female?

mlager
Jan 28, 2013, 01:59 PM
Female