amberlou
Jan 22, 2013, 05:30 PM
I'm not sure if the last version posted so sorry if you find two.
My boyfriend of 5 1/2 years basically always puts his friends first and I'm sick of it. I want to come before beer and the boys. Not all the time as I know that having our own lives is important but he always finds time and cash for them when he's skint or too busy for me and will often drop plans with me for them. Most of the time he doesn't even ask if I mind or tell me I either have to find out or can@t get hold of him.
We've spoken about it and I've been very clear about what I want and how I feel, he admitted he had been an idiot lately and needed to change his behaviour as he'd started to cause drama for no reason and pick fights too. But nothing seems to hae changed and I'm not sure how much more I can take. I can't help but think that being single and free may not give me the comfort of someone knowing me like he does and treating and caring for me the way he normally does but it won't cause the drama and stress.
How long should I give him or any other advice?
My boyfriend of 5 1/2 years basically always puts his friends first and I'm sick of it. I want to come before beer and the boys. Not all the time as I know that having our own lives is important but he always finds time and cash for them when he's skint or too busy for me and will often drop plans with me for them. Most of the time he doesn't even ask if I mind or tell me I either have to find out or can@t get hold of him.
We've spoken about it and I've been very clear about what I want and how I feel, he admitted he had been an idiot lately and needed to change his behaviour as he'd started to cause drama for no reason and pick fights too. But nothing seems to hae changed and I'm not sure how much more I can take. I can't help but think that being single and free may not give me the comfort of someone knowing me like he does and treating and caring for me the way he normally does but it won't cause the drama and stress.
How long should I give him or any other advice?