hopeless2850
Jan 21, 2013, 01:53 PM
I started dating my current boyfriend in 2008. I was 14 and he was 15. We had known each other since we were 5. After we had been dating for about 2 years, we began to have problems. We fought all the time, I felt that he wouldn't listen to me, he was always playing video games and spending time away from me. It got to the point that we never talked and I was always by myself when I was at his house.
I joined the flag line at my school my senior year and we went to a band competition in the year of 2010. After we performed, we would always go around and introduce ourselves to other bands and their members. I met this one guy, Seth, and he was really nice to me.
Long story short, I started to like Seth and I left my current boyfriend for Seth three times. The problem was that I kept coming back to my current boyfriend and as a result, I hurt Seth every time.
Seth got tired of waiting on me and moved on and he has been dating this other girl for over a year. I would let him go, but he says he doesn't want me to let him go.
That makes it impossible for me to let him go. Seth says he doesn't want to give me another chance because 1) he doesn't trust me, which I understand and 2) he has another girlfriend.
At times he will treat me like he did when we first met and he will flirt with me and then he will ignore me for a few weeks and then we start all over again. He always starts talking to me again when I give up and don't think about him anymore. Then, after we talk, he's all I think about.
I don't want to hurt my boyfriend, but I want Seth. I am truly ready to let go of my boyfriend and move on with Seth.
I just don't know what to do. I love them both. :(
Help?
I joined the flag line at my school my senior year and we went to a band competition in the year of 2010. After we performed, we would always go around and introduce ourselves to other bands and their members. I met this one guy, Seth, and he was really nice to me.
Long story short, I started to like Seth and I left my current boyfriend for Seth three times. The problem was that I kept coming back to my current boyfriend and as a result, I hurt Seth every time.
Seth got tired of waiting on me and moved on and he has been dating this other girl for over a year. I would let him go, but he says he doesn't want me to let him go.
That makes it impossible for me to let him go. Seth says he doesn't want to give me another chance because 1) he doesn't trust me, which I understand and 2) he has another girlfriend.
At times he will treat me like he did when we first met and he will flirt with me and then he will ignore me for a few weeks and then we start all over again. He always starts talking to me again when I give up and don't think about him anymore. Then, after we talk, he's all I think about.
I don't want to hurt my boyfriend, but I want Seth. I am truly ready to let go of my boyfriend and move on with Seth.
I just don't know what to do. I love them both. :(
Help?