Ok, so my girlfriend broke up with me about a week and a half ago and told me it was because her aunt made her. A few days later she tells me it was because I didn't get along with her friends well enough. Then we had a big talk and she told me it was primarily because she was trying to get into Julliard and couldn't have a boyfriend at the time, yet while we were dating I found out she was dating another chick and I asked her to break up with her and is still dating her. Two days after she breaks up with me her girlfriend came back from Syracuse and (by the way my ex's name is Percy, other girls is Nita) Percy tells me she has feelings for me still and I admitted the same thing to her. Yesterday these guys called my friend a whore and I chased him down, he backs me into a wall and clawed my eye (I am now half blind in said eye) and Percy and Cody (my best friend) get all pissed and step up cause they put their hands on me (which surprised me). She gives Cody a note saying that she can't hang out with us at lunch anymore because she feels guilty for breaking up with me and that it's too awkward. She told me that breaking up with me was the second worst decision she has ever made. Percy still wants to be friends and so do I but I haven't seen her a friend since I first met her, presently I see her not as a friend but as a potential second chance girlfriend. Don't judge me for saying this but I have been depressed the whole time and cried a few times, I really do love her (even though we are both 14). So what should I do, I still have feelings for her but she doesn't want to get back together? Sorry for the length.
~~~~Quinlan Pettit

Do what your heart tells you to do. Never mind everyone's opinion.. If you think you love her then show her you want her back and if she comes back but if not then let her go. As the old saying goes if you love someone let them go and if they come back then they are yours forever.

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GoodLuck!!

Valentine's Day is my girlfriend's favorite holiday. I already have a box of chocolates, a heart shaped container with a teddy bear decoration in it, a poem, a list of why I love her, and a single rose. She has been very sick the last few days. I was originally going to take her out for dinner, but I don't know if I can if she is still sick tomorrow. She might not be in school tomorrow, even. So what should I do?

If she really loves you, anything you do will be enough. It's not about gifts, it's about the thought you put behind it, and from what you've written, you've put a lot of thought behind it. I'd be thrilled just to get the rose, or the poem. You've gone over and above, so I think you'll be fine.

If she's not in school tomorrow, call her when you get home, tell her that you would have loved to see her, that you had plans, but the two of you can go to dinner when she feels better. If she feels up to it, go over to give her the gifts you got (if you wait too long the rose will die). Just spend some time with her.

I think you're on the right track. :)

Have fun!

Okay, last night my girlfriend of 5 months sent me a message over FaceBook saying that we were done. I replied with "Oh....okay....". Then she told me bye and I said bye back. After that she sends a message saying that it was a test and that she knew I didn't love her and that it was nice to know 5 months meant nothing. I replied with " I do love you. And all that time we were together was the greatest I've had, and that I do care and will not stop caring about you. ". She then just says "F**k you", leaving me curious to whether we are together still. Any advice would be of use and will be much obliged. I see her in class tomorrow, and in the hallways at various times throughout the day. Thanks for reading...

Want to know what I think? I think that whether it was a test or not, you really shouldn't be with her.

If she was testing you, then she is immature and childish and is obviously playing mind games with you. This is a sign of disrespect. Then to sit there and treat you like that, why put up with it? That's crap.

I would tell her that you're not into childish games and you don't need someone that does things like that in your life.

I totally agree with Odinn - but what else is new?

People are so dumb sometimes. If you ask a question you need to be ready for any answer. Not just the answer you want to hear. If you test someone, you need to be ready for any outcome. What was she thinking?

Do you really want a relationship that is full of drama and games? I wouldn't. Send her back to middle school. You can do better.

She is 14 right? These are the games they play for whatever reasons. Hard for 14 year old guys to keep up with a females changing moods but don't beg and cry about it. Give it a few days like I think you did last time. Or maybe its her turn to dump you.

14?

Oy vey!

My best friend told me that she told him that she got a new boyfriend at the party she went to a few days back. I am just done with her. I deleted her contact, all of our pictures together, blocked her on FaceBook and deleted all the messages. Even after all of this and support from my friends there is just this big empty hollow feeling I have...