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Sokool
Dec 27, 2012, 02:48 AM
I chat with one man and we met. First day we go to dinner and I'm back he MSG to me he like me and he want to hold my hand and second day we go to watch movie he hold my hand and when I'm back he MSG to me he want to kiss me... Question is English and American people they start relationship fast like this? Is this normally step ? Please tell about your culture because I'm Thai I don't understand about this

Fr_Chuck
Dec 27, 2012, 02:59 AM
At what age,

In American, two Americans dating may hold hands and kiss on first date.
Many may have sex within a couple weeks of dating. Not all are his fast but holding hands and kissing is very common on first dates in the US.

Where are you from ? Are you living in US now ? Or is an American living in your nation.

I will say that customs vary greatly, I got into a little misunderstanding here in China a few months ago myself over this.
It is common in the US for a professional to carry a printed business card and if someone wants your phone number or you want to give your number to someone, you just hand them the business card.

Well I did not know that if a man, hands a single girl his professional card, and it is not work related, it means he is interested in a relationship with them. I had two women thinking I wanted to date them. PS my wife was not happy about this at all. We did clear it all up by explaining customs and I learned to just write my number on paper to give out unless it was business related.