View Full Version : Possibly pregnant? Only 15... please help
Katherine L
Dec 10, 2012, 12:49 PM
Okay so I'll try to shorten this as best I can. I unwillingly had unprotected "sex".. 2 days later I took a emergency contraceptive.. Then about a week later I got a heavy period that lasted about 4 days.. It was about a week and a half early. I haven't had my period since.. It's been 3 months. Ive taken 4 pregnancy tests all negative spread out throughout this time. Why hasn't my period come? I don't know if this matters but I used to take birth control for other reasons. I was very choppy and irresponsible taking it and it messed up my system and my periods were extremely irregular when id stop using it. Then when I completely stopped I didn't get my period for more than 6 months.. Then I had a few periods on track then this whole thing happened. So could that have anything to do with it? Please help I'm so scared I have no pregnancy signs but my period has been gone for so long!
Wondergirl
Dec 10, 2012, 12:51 PM
Time to see a doctor!
odinn7
Dec 10, 2012, 01:27 PM
What do you mean when you say you "unwillingly had unprotected sex"?
ScottGem
Dec 10, 2012, 01:29 PM
It is certainly possible this is a side effect of the emergency contraceptive. But its time to see your doctor. At 15 you should be able to talk to your OB/Gyn without your parents presence.
The phrase unwillingly had unprotected "sex" sounds like rape to me. Is that what happened?
Katherine L
Dec 10, 2012, 01:34 PM
Yes that's pretty much what happened... He abused me but I don't want anyone to know about that part because it would cause too much stress right now that I can't handle. I don't know if I can trust the doctors not to say anything to my parents or have anyway of letting them find out
odinn7
Dec 10, 2012, 01:36 PM
If someone raped you, they need to go to jail for doing so. It is not your fault that this happened and you should report them for it.
Wondergirl
Dec 10, 2012, 01:39 PM
What you tell a doctor is supposed to be confidential, even from your parents. To relieve your mind, ask him if it will be before you tell him anything. If he thinks he has to tell them, he must ask you for permission first.
ScottGem
Dec 10, 2012, 01:41 PM
Unfortunately there is no proof of rape at this point. So I don't see where reporting it is going to do much good.
Like I said, I think you can talk to your OB/Gyn in private and have your confidence kept. But the bottom line is, if your period is not coming there could be damage to your body and you NEED to be checked out.