mzzjenz1
Nov 28, 2012, 06:40 PM
Me and my boyfriend officially dated for 2 1/2 years, back in April he cheated on me with another girl he had known for a long time.. him and this girl I think they've kind of been involved on and off since like middle school and we're all in our 3rd yr of college & I have questioned him before about this girl but anyway after he cheated on me he broke up with me after he had sex with her...
Him and the other girl were involved over the whole summer while him and I were broken up, but toward the end of the summer him and I started communicating again and hanging out I kind of made the initial moves but he didn't reject, well she found out and she ended whatever it was they had going on over the summer... she said he told her that him and I were not getting back together so when she found out we were talking and spending time together she said she felt lied to so they ended at the end of the summer (him and the girl)
Throughout this whole semester we've been kicking it, hanging out, spending time together, sex, he has bought me flowers, we say we still love each other etc etc but we are still not back together since our break up in April... now I got to his phone messages and him and that girl had stopped communicating because she found out him and I were back involved but they have been recently talking again like the last few days for the 1st time in a while I think... and he told her he wants to stay in contact and he told her he wants to stay connected to her and she said she would like that... I'm pretty upset... in the conversation she apologized for her reactions to finding out him and I were back involved and he apologized to her and in his words told her "i still don't know where u got that me and my ex (which is me) are back because i'm still single"...
Things have been good with us lately we cook for each other, spend nights together etc but we still aren't back together officially... it's like we're single but in a relationship at the same time what do you think is going on? Because we haven't ever been broken up this long before?
Please don't be too rude and blunt this is my life and I love him very much
Him and the other girl were involved over the whole summer while him and I were broken up, but toward the end of the summer him and I started communicating again and hanging out I kind of made the initial moves but he didn't reject, well she found out and she ended whatever it was they had going on over the summer... she said he told her that him and I were not getting back together so when she found out we were talking and spending time together she said she felt lied to so they ended at the end of the summer (him and the girl)
Throughout this whole semester we've been kicking it, hanging out, spending time together, sex, he has bought me flowers, we say we still love each other etc etc but we are still not back together since our break up in April... now I got to his phone messages and him and that girl had stopped communicating because she found out him and I were back involved but they have been recently talking again like the last few days for the 1st time in a while I think... and he told her he wants to stay in contact and he told her he wants to stay connected to her and she said she would like that... I'm pretty upset... in the conversation she apologized for her reactions to finding out him and I were back involved and he apologized to her and in his words told her "i still don't know where u got that me and my ex (which is me) are back because i'm still single"...
Things have been good with us lately we cook for each other, spend nights together etc but we still aren't back together officially... it's like we're single but in a relationship at the same time what do you think is going on? Because we haven't ever been broken up this long before?
Please don't be too rude and blunt this is my life and I love him very much