My girlfriend and I have been going out for 8 - 9 months and through those times it has been great, we have been through so many things, such as, a holiday, parties, birthdays, and on the last month I started accusing her of liking this other guy who is also one of my friends and hers from college. He has liked her for 2 months and she only started liking him through me.

Well, we broke up and she told me she wanted some time to think, so I left it for about a day, she went to this friends house who also hangs around with this guy outside of college, and they were all out all that night. When she got home she started speaking to me on Facebook, just talking about we have nothing more to say to each other etc. Anyway, the next day after we both got through college together, she went out to this lads house, and he asked her out, knowing we just broke up, and she said she was confused and panicking because she lost me or something.

I started panicking and drawing her pictures and a note on the back of one, she to me late at night, and we went for a walk and she told me she loves me, and that she wanted me to wait for her, because she wanted me, so I started telling her that I was going out with friends for a night out and that there was some lasses that liked me coming, I left her for a day, and then she wanted to meet me a day after. I went to hers, and she started saying she loves me, and she kept looking into my eyes, and cuddling me, And then she kissed me, and started hugging me, saying she missed me so much.

Then she dumped the guy on a phone message and then we got back together, anyway, its been a day or 2, and she still speaks to him quite a lot, she says that she didn't feel for him in that way, only as a friend and that I'm all she wants, but then she kept sending him messages saying are you okay and stuff, and he sent her a message saying, that he loves her and that he's waited for so long, like 2 months, for her, and I asked her if she loves him and she says, no, and then she would go quiet, and think a lot, but she won't tell him she doesn't or his friend who asked her if she does, and she won't tell me.

I really love this girl and she says she wants me, and I said for her to chose who she wants, she says me but I'm not quite convinced because I left hers late at night, and she was still talking to him, and I just really wonder what she would have said to him, she told him they broke up because he smoked weed and her mum was mad or something :?

If I am reading this right: you two broke up, you went out with other girls, she was asked out by a friend and turned him down because she wanted you... could your worries be due to a guilty concience? You think she will do something with him because in her position that's what you would do?