Yoogle
Nov 23, 2012, 05:33 AM
Well, its been quite a long time since I've been trying to get back my ex.
We met during first week of Feb 2012, and the world had been a beautiful place for both of us. We met everyday, and went on dates every weekend. All we wanted from life was to spend more time with each other.
All our friends called us the perfect couple and life was like a fairy tale where we treated each other like prince and princess, keeping each other happy, and satisfying every need of the partner, no matter how small or big. He even introduced me as his special friend to his parents, and his mom was pretty impressed.
It then happened during April end that he asked for a breakup and requested to be friends because he doesn't want to be emotionally involved with anyone. When I denied to quit the perfect life we were living, his behavior changed altogether.
He would neither call or text me, nor would he reply to my calls or texts. He even changed his residence for more than a month.
Initially, when he was away, I'd call him every night, and he'd answer it rudely. Later, when I began no contact, and gave him time to miss me, he'd call me on his own for even stupid things like I found your chocolate in my bag. Later, it so happened that he'd call me every night at 10pm. At times he'd talk like we were the best buddies, but at times he'd not call me for days, and if I called him, he'd not respond to my calls.
Since August, he is back in town and we always meet when our friends invite us for hanging out or so, but he never agrees for meeting me personally. Even when we meet with friends around, at times he is jolly with me, but at times he is very rude.
Last month, only two of us had met coincidentally for a while, and we did share our emotions, he apologized to me for being harsh but asked me to move on and find another guy. He can only be friends with me, nothing more.
Recently, when I told him that I'll be going for a dinner date with another guy, his immediate response was that I shouldn't step on two rocks at the same time. Immediately during the next weekend, he introduced his new date to our friends.
Last weekend when I was feeling pretty low that he is moving on, I called him expecting him to support me, but he denied to give me any support and mentioned that he is single at the moment and does not want to get involved in any relationship. He also mentioned that he is seeing someone special but wouldn't want to share his personal life with me. And, he hasn't been talking to me since then.
Since we have a common set of friends, we meet every weekend, and thus, no contact is not possible.
We are going on a holiday during Christmas week with a few friends, and I hope to return with good memories. The best would be to return being his partner, but the least I want is to be a person he would want to spend time with.
We met during first week of Feb 2012, and the world had been a beautiful place for both of us. We met everyday, and went on dates every weekend. All we wanted from life was to spend more time with each other.
All our friends called us the perfect couple and life was like a fairy tale where we treated each other like prince and princess, keeping each other happy, and satisfying every need of the partner, no matter how small or big. He even introduced me as his special friend to his parents, and his mom was pretty impressed.
It then happened during April end that he asked for a breakup and requested to be friends because he doesn't want to be emotionally involved with anyone. When I denied to quit the perfect life we were living, his behavior changed altogether.
He would neither call or text me, nor would he reply to my calls or texts. He even changed his residence for more than a month.
Initially, when he was away, I'd call him every night, and he'd answer it rudely. Later, when I began no contact, and gave him time to miss me, he'd call me on his own for even stupid things like I found your chocolate in my bag. Later, it so happened that he'd call me every night at 10pm. At times he'd talk like we were the best buddies, but at times he'd not call me for days, and if I called him, he'd not respond to my calls.
Since August, he is back in town and we always meet when our friends invite us for hanging out or so, but he never agrees for meeting me personally. Even when we meet with friends around, at times he is jolly with me, but at times he is very rude.
Last month, only two of us had met coincidentally for a while, and we did share our emotions, he apologized to me for being harsh but asked me to move on and find another guy. He can only be friends with me, nothing more.
Recently, when I told him that I'll be going for a dinner date with another guy, his immediate response was that I shouldn't step on two rocks at the same time. Immediately during the next weekend, he introduced his new date to our friends.
Last weekend when I was feeling pretty low that he is moving on, I called him expecting him to support me, but he denied to give me any support and mentioned that he is single at the moment and does not want to get involved in any relationship. He also mentioned that he is seeing someone special but wouldn't want to share his personal life with me. And, he hasn't been talking to me since then.
Since we have a common set of friends, we meet every weekend, and thus, no contact is not possible.
We are going on a holiday during Christmas week with a few friends, and I hope to return with good memories. The best would be to return being his partner, but the least I want is to be a person he would want to spend time with.