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Comeandgetme12
Nov 22, 2012, 05:35 PM
Hi, I am jules and I'm 15 and my ex boy friend and I haven't really talked much this year, m

Alty
Nov 22, 2012, 05:40 PM
Hi, I am jules and I'm 15 and my ex boy friend and I haven't really talked much this year, m

That's probably for the best, as he's your ex.

What's your question?

Comeandgetme12
Nov 22, 2012, 05:45 PM
Hi, I am jules and I'm 15 and my ex boy friend and I haven't really talked much this year, mOstly because I would t reply to his texts. I did this because we had dated twice and It failed last year. I finally replied to his happy thanks giving txt and he told me he missed me. We talked about our problems in our relationship , I addmitted I wasent girlfriendy and he playfully tickled other girls wich pissed me off. He had a pros opus relationship where she flirted slutily with ober guys & he had said he understood why that upset me. I want to know if I should date him for the 3rd time. He is also 1 of those teenage boys who allways think they need a girlfriend and he's had 2 this year(both sortof cheated on him) so maybe I'm just another resort, however I have. Been COMPLETELY ingn

Alty
Nov 22, 2012, 05:57 PM
Hi, I am jules and I'm 15 and my ex boy friend and I haven't really talked much this year, mOstly because I would t reply to his texts. I did this because we had dated twice and It failed last year. I finally replied to his happy thanks giving txt and he told me he missed me. We talked about our problems in our relationship , I addmitted I wasent girlfriendy and he playfully tickled other girls wich pissed me off. He had a pros opus relationship where she flirted slutily with ober guys & he had said he understood why that upset me. I want to know if I should date him for the 3rd time. He is also 1 of those teenage boys who allways think they need a girlfriend and he's had 2 this year(both sortof cheated on him) so maybe I'm just another resort, however I have. Been COMPLETELY ingn


Jules, most of the people on this site, especially the experts, are educated people. We don't speak teen, we speak English. Having said that, a lot of your post isn't in English, so could you please clarify, in English? We really can't dumb ourselves down enough to understand this.

For example. What does "pros opus" mean? It seems to play a huge part in the relationship you had with this boy. Knowing what it means would really help. I googled and found nothing.

I also don't understand what you're trying to say here " I addmitted I wasent girlfriendy". To me that sounds like you weren't his girlfriend. If that's the case then why were you mad that he tickled other girls?

Date him for the 3rd time? Doesn't sound like you ever dated him the first and second time. Clarify please.

What does this mean?


so maybe I'm just another resort, however I have.

Have what?


Been COMPLETELY ingn

Ingn? What does that mean?

In other words, please write in English. You're 15, you should know how. Full sentences, punctuation, and the best English you're capable of. If you can't find it in a dictionary, then don't use it here. Okay?

Right now I have no idea how to answer your question, because I can't decode it.

Comeandgetme12
Nov 22, 2012, 06:16 PM
Jules, most of the people on this site, especially the experts, are educated people. We don't speak teen, we speak English. Having said that, a lot of your post isn't in English, so could you please clarify, in English? We really can't dumb ourselves down enough to understand this.

For example. What does "pros opus" mean? It seems to play a huge part in the relationship you had with this boy. Knowing what it means would really help. I googled and found nothing.

I also don't understand what you're trying to say here " I addmitted I wasent girlfriendy". To me that sounds like you weren't his girlfriend. If that's the case then why were you mad that he tickled other girls?

Date him for the 3rd time? Doesn't sound like you ever dated him the first and second time. Clarify please.

What does this mean?



Have what?



ingn? What does that mean?

In other words, please write in English. You're 15, you should know how. Full sentences, punctuation, and the best English you're capable of. If you can't find it in a dictionary, then don't use it here. Okay?

Right now I have no idea how to answer your question, because I can't decode it. first off, I did this on my iPod and sometimes I accidentally hit buttons I don't mean to. Also, auto correct doesn't help. That opus word was supposed to be previous, and I just was typing so fast I messed up. Last resort means like a "rebound" sort of . I assume you know what a rebound girlfriend or boyfriend is. "ign" was supposed to be ignoring. It also may behoove you to know that I am in honors English class and I accidentally pressed the submit answere button 2 times. Once at the very beginning and once at "ign" (this one) so there are 3 of these forums, one has the entire passage. Sorry for the inconvenience. Happy thanks giving.

odinn7
Nov 22, 2012, 06:31 PM
No, based on what you said about him, I don't think you should date him again.

Alty
Nov 22, 2012, 06:59 PM
first off, I did this on my iPod and sometimes I accidentally hit buttons I don't mean to. Also, auto correct doesn't help. That opus word was supposed to be previous, and I just was typing so fast I messed up. Last resort means like a "rebound" sort of . I assume you know what a rebound girlfriend or boyfriend is. "ign" was supposed to be ignoring. It also may behoove you to know that I am in honors English class and I accidentally pressed the submit answere button 2 times. Once at the very beginning and once at "ign" (this one) so there are 3 of these forums, one has the entire passage. Sorry for the inconvenience. Happy thanks giving.

The device you use, or the fact that you're in honors English, doesn't really matter. The fact is, I couldn't decode your post. I asked you nicely to re-write it. That's all you needed to do.

Also, your other threads have been or will be deleted. It's against the rules of this site to post multiple threads about the same question.

The fact is, most of the teens that come here can't properly write in English, their first language. You had the option to check your post before you posted it, make any corrections that were necessary. You didn't. We all make mistakes, but you cannot expect us to read your mind. We can only go by what you've written. If we can't understand what you've written then the only option is to ask.

The written word is funny that way. It leaves very little to the imagination, it just is what it is.

Having said that, I think that dating this boy again is a bad idea. It doesn't sound like he's interested in you. It sounds like he's just interested in having someone so he's not single.

Alexis Dubree
Nov 22, 2012, 06:59 PM
Don't date him again

Comeandgetme12
Nov 22, 2012, 07:16 PM
The device you use, or the fact that you're in honors English, doesn't really matter. The fact is, I couldn't decode your post. I asked you nicely to re-write it. That's all you needed to do.

Also, your other threads have been or will be deleted. It's against the rules of this site to post multiple threads about the same question.

The fact is, most of the teens that come here can't properly write in English, their first language. You had the option to check your post before you posted it, make any corrections that were necessary. You didn't. We all make mistakes, but you cannot expect us to read your mind. We can only go by what you've written. If we can't understand what you've written then the only option is to ask.

The written word is funny that way. It leaves very little to the imagination, it just is what it is.

Having said that, I think that dating this boy again is a bad idea. It doesn't sound like he's interested in you. It sounds like he's just interested in having someone so he's not single.
Thanks! And I will scrutinise my what I write or type now, my papaw had that same "most teens can't write in their first language properly" thing also.

Alty
Nov 22, 2012, 09:09 PM
Thanks! And I will scrutinise my what I write or type now, my papaw had that same "most teens can't write in their first language properly" thing also.

It's becoming an epidemic, one that scares the crap out of me. If this keeps up, the new language will be texting or chat speak. Some teachers are even accepting essays written in chat speak now, because that's all their students know. Instead of teaching, they're letting the kids dictate what they'll write. It's a recipe for disaster.

I have two kids. I don't let them get away with chat speak, and I make very sure that anything they write, is written properly. It's something that's very important to me, and it will serve them well in the future. :)

prettyns
Nov 22, 2012, 11:47 PM
I don't think you should date him couz you don't sound like you were dating him in the first place.